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Yes before someone jumps the ship, I have read all of the University/College thread.
I recently wanted to open HB's in my building but I found that I am dry trying to come up with some "school" related openers because HB's are usually never alone and with their friends. I know tons of good openers that could work for clubs... etc but some don't really work for school.
If anyone could tell me some good openers that could work with groups or a 1 set would be great!
Thanks in advance.
Hello,
I have been in university for 2 years now, while I just found out about this forum I think I have had success with women so Ill give you my 2 cents.
Ofc this might not work..etc...etc.
Always improvise..be ready to think on your feet.
Remember something...we are creatures who are very dependent of our environment...we react to where we are.
Use that to your advantage.
I.e
you see a girl studying by herself...approach her and ask her what she is studying (if you have some knowledge in what she is doing talk about it (gain familiarity, make her conformable with the fact that you're a complete stranger...ppl like to feel at ease), look at signs that she is interested in you...
move the convo from school to personal.
I have found that the easiest way to get a person/girl to form a bond of trust with you...is you sharing stories with them that they can relate to..if you dont have any...make some up....
"oh my ex-gf took this class...blah blah"
a group?
what I do...(I am assuming most of the picking up occurs while they're studying..since this is what I do)
I go over there and ask them if I can sit in the seat next to them (if theyre on a table) and then I join their conversation...
you said opener..and here it is.