Evening guys, Right I’ve just got into a relationship with this girl I’ve liked for a while now and everything seems to be going great but my head makes things out to be a lot worse then things are at times. I think because of my ex she told me the reason she broke up with me because things got boring and we did the same day in day out and we I think she was right. But now my Ex wants me back so it couldn’t off been that bad. But I’ve started to realise its ending out the same with my new gf she hasn’t complained but I don’t want to bore her I want to keep it exiting, There is one problem though I don’t work so I don’t have much money which really annoys me I do try hard to get a job but the way this country is at the moment is so hard. So what can I do to make things to shock and wow her that doesn’t always cost a lot of money? Anyway reply or two would be nice on this thanks for reading and I hope this can help some of you guys.

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The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over.

Im currently unemployed,but my LTR is never boring.

So you dont need money to spice things up.

All it means is to do thing differently.

Not(necessarily)to spend lots of money.

If yall have sex at 7pm every night.

You need to be spontaneous and do her at some random moment.

Instead of sex at routine 7pm,do it at 12am.

If yall usually have bed sex(boring).

Surprise her by banging her outside some where(adventurous).

Take walks.

No money?

Go to a free-entry bar(most bars)and just chill together without drinking.

Do different things.

It has nothing to do with money unless she's specifically begging you to take her on cruises.

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Thanks for the quick reply man seen allot of your posts on the relationship forum.

I think it’s a good idea to change time but I haven’t ever took track of when we have sex or not it usually happens when it happens but yeah it’s almost always every time we have sex in the bed so I will change that. As for walks we’ll try do that too, Is there anything spontaneous you do or plan anything nice? I really want to give her everything but can’t do so because of money issues it sucks really.

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The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over.

Here's a revelation:

She's still with you right now despite knowing full well your money situation.

What does that mean?

She doesn't give a shit about what material experience you can provide for her.

She's with you because she WANTS YOU.

Now start acting like this.

I think a lot of guys worry too much about making things "interesting"- forget interesting, and just go for different.



And yes- I can't stress the money issue enough. Quite frankly, some of the best dates I've been on cost little to no money:

- Went out to watch the sunrise... at 4 am... on a Wednesday morning.

- Went to explore an old abandoned building.

- Just drove for a long while out to the middle of nowhere and listened to a bunch of CDs in the car.

- Subway date (train, tube, metro, whatever you call it)! We just sat on the subway- he even packed me lunch- and spoke, made up stories about the people sitting around us and where they were headed etc.

- Took me grocery shopping, told me to pick out a bunch of items for under $15 and said he'd cook me dinner using only those items. The dinner was horrible; it was one of my favorite days.

- Went to a park and played cards. Another time we brought a Rummy set with us, and ended up playing with four random people.


-Roz

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There are alot of good ideas on here...check your local paper...there should be alot of ideas there.

Yes, be and do different things. Trust me, I have done way over the top things with my GF and the honestly...it was the things that cost nothing that stand out in her head the most like going to the park for a play...sunrise, sunset a walk and getting to know "her" on a deeper level.

Let us know what you do and how it goes!

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Go out to the woods and make art and sculptures out of found materials. Costs nothing. Passers-by will worry that some kind of Blair Witch death cult has set up shop, lol. Or it can be nice friendly art, like Tibetan stone stacks. Find out what hippies are doing in your area. They're often anti-materialistic, to a point. Will do things on the basis of barter instead of monetary transaction for instance. Play in a drum circle. Learn to make your own drum out of junk if you have to. Go do a volunteer project together. Go protest something together.

Once again thanks for the awesome replies.
Some of these ideas are awesome! I just never thought of how much stuff you could do with no money well I guess in today’s world they drill your head with the idea nothing is free anymore. I will try my best to do most if not all these things and more such as dancing I like to dance but not really good at it that’s another fun thing we can do together. If anyone reading or have commented on this post with anymore ideas feel free to add more, I’m sure they are helping people in my situation and helping people with fun new ways to do stuff with your other half. Anyway I haven’t been feeling to great this week caught a little bug so I haven’t had much time with her or on here, I’m seeing her Monday and I will try new things out I’ll let you know how it goes.

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