Okay guys, so for those of you who have read my previous post
operation-escalation-k-close-vt83272.html, this was my attempt (first attemtp btw) to obtain a k-close, yes, theaspiredone has never been kissed before,..
Anyways, there is this girl who I recently met last year when we grouped to do some school project together for an interschool competition (which btw, we got 3rd!!). That was during the time I found out about PU and had just finished reading the venusian artist handbook. SO there I was trying out PU material and OMG it was working! I was getting shit tests and there were tonnes of signs of attraction
Btw, this HB is IMO the most desirable girl in the whole school. Seriously, I have four other classmates that either still like her, or used to like her.
I missed some chances back then to escalate and I thought 'damn, well thats the end of it, this set has crashed and burnt, I'm in the FZ" But I knew she was still into me back then, and I would just love to tease her and be really playful with her. This happened for almost a quarter or a year,.. yea thats right, 3 fucking months!!
Then one day, I'm listening to tyler durden speak, and he said 'benefit from the rules and principles, learn from them, but do not let them limit you'. Hit me right in the eye,.. damn!
Well the only reason I've been holding back with this girl is that I believed I missed my chance, that I didn't escalate fast enough so I lost her.
So I nitiate operation escalation. operation escalation was to happen on a monday , however, I stalled out and her ride came to pick her up (it was 4PM forafternoon extra classes . We're in high school) so instead I waited til wednesday (today). Why did I not initiate operation escalation on a tuesday??
For the simple fact that I did not have extra classes on tuesdays and usually only my grade has extra classes so after extra classes, the school is basically deserted except for students from my grade so isolation was easier after extra classes.
Anways,.. pretty simple, I told her
"hey, I wanna tell you something, come over here"
She was going "do I have to? can't you just tell me here?" Obviously, from her body language and all, I can tell it's so obvious it's a shit test. This girl knows I'm into her and god damn has been throwing me tonnes of shit tests (just last week, infront of me, she was like 'hey, X is pretty cute ain't he, do you know his email?. Give it to me?" Damn! I just told her 'owh yea, it's this and that and that, owh yea, if I were a girl, I'd go after him as well" with no hing of reaction or being effected by what she said.
I tell her "yea ! some over here" And I lead her to the staircases where it was isolated and if by some god miracle I do get a k-close I get her to stand on one of the steps to kiss me (she's kinda short, or I'm kinda tall,.. whatever)
Jeez once we were there I could feel my fucking legs shaking!!! I controlled them however, and I'm sure they were not visible. And I told her
" Hey, I'm crazy about, and I get this feeling, this vibe coming from you that you're really crazy over me as well,.. aren't you?"
I say this and I make sure I finish this sentence completely, cause if I just said I'm crazy about you, that would be giving her all the power!! But I also say that she is crazy about me as well because I knwo for a fact that she either a, is, or b, was attracted to me at some point and I use a little bit of nlp (I'm a newbie at that one too) to give her a subliminal command "YOU"RE REALLY CRAZY OVER ME,.. aren't you?"
She looks at me and shes like 'OMG TheAspiredONe!,.. okay are you serious? okay tell me, what's so special about me?" (yea, I've been busting and teasing her that my qualification process with ehr was really bad)
So I guess I should have played around with this maybe just a little bit but I gave it straight to her telling her she was fun and the had this quirky expression she does with ehr mouth that I find adorable.
Then I go into the phase of operation escalation and tell her to give me her hands.
She does (which is AWESOME!) and I lead her up to the first step on the stairs and I say to her
"I wanna try something totally crazy" which she then like takes her hand back and pulls back up the stiars! ANd she's like
"TheAspiredOne!,. What are you doing? What do you wanna do?"
And I justt ell her to give me back her hands, which she does!
I then tell her
"You remember those teenage movies that were around when we were like 7 or something? WHen the guy told the girl how they felt, they kissed? How crazy would it be if we kissed?"
She said "very crazy,.. I'm not going to kiss you"
I said "I know you do, deep down in there. You do really wanna kiss me"
And she's "no, I can't."
And it continued a lil something like this and finally I dunno what happened,... but I suggested we go back to our friends cuz "I didn't trust myself with her alone like this" (dunno if this was a smart move or what)
And on the way she's like "OMG never do anything that awkward again,.. "
I know all the above was token resistance and I could have obtained my k-close if I just pushed a lil farther but I'm inexperienced,.. this actually my first k-close attempt. And I guess that the cultural background here doesn't help either cause I bet 80% of all guys my age have never kissed someone before.
We went bac to the table and she was totally questioning me. It's like every girl here, when you tell them you find them attractive, they wanna know for how long. Anyways, apparently she's still into me and asked me to go on at 8PM tonight (right now) but I'm not going to cause 'women live in the emotion of the moment' and frankly, it's never fun to interact over facebook, or text or live messenger.
I say this ones in the bag,.. though I didn't get my k-close though. But this is one stepping stone on the drip drip effect to greatness for me as a PUA.
Peace out there guys,..
TheAspiredOne
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