My plans for monday with a girl I've been gaming on for almost a quarter of a year boys, tell me what ya think.


operation commences on 17th January 2011 at 16 00 hours.

Aim of operation = k-close, or die trying

Presuppositions for success

* Target's ride is not on time
* target still holds a fair amount of attraction for me
* Isolation is success

Operation succeeds if

* k-close obtained
* blown out

Operations fails if

* I do not initiate and follow through with the operation process

Reasons for operation escalation

* My target was successfully attracted by me and I have instilled beautiful comfort and rapport with her.
* I'm in my comfort zone and it is time I set my goals higher
* I've never been kissed before
* I either get blown, or blown out. Either way, I must have one.

Success for operation escalation = 70% are my estimates


Process of operations

* On the morning of 17th january 2011, I must pump up target's BT beforehand and establish great rapport and high sexual tension.
* In the midst of this, I shall tell her that I'm going to tell her a big secret which btw, I will overhype it for effect. I hope to have my wingman 'AV' to make this abstract secret seem very real and which I hope will hook my target's attention
* I really hope that during the course of the rest of the day, my target will insist on me telling her the secret which I shall push away (push pull dynamics) which will only make her think of it big and want it more
* After afternoon practicals, I will isolate target near the staircases. I will have AV stand guard back at the canteen to hold the groups attention (I might help him out with some preplanned stuff which now that I think of it, will probly be about the muse concert and the upcoming iron maiden concert)
* Upon isolation, I will bring her to the secluded spot around the staircase and just stand there holding seductive eye contact to increase the sexual tension while I wait for her to ask me what I wanna tell her.
* I tell her that she can't tell anyone and pause for sexual tension to rise.
* I then say to her .... SEC - seductive eye contact


PUA: I'm crazy about you,.. *SEC* and I can sense the vibe that you probably are crazy over me as well

At this point, I don't really feel that she might reply. But I'll wait, to increase the sexual tension as well as to look for either signs of excitement or doom in targets eyes.

PUA: Give me your hands *hold out my hands palms up*

Hold *SEC* until she does. If she verbalises that she will not take em' which btw, I think is just not going to happen, I will still hold SEC making it awkward for her not to and also at the same time, increase the sexual tension. Basically just following anti-manifesto theory.

When her hand is atop mine, I say

PUA : I wanna try something totally crazy *sly smile*

And pause for one second to again, increase the sexual tension.

PUA : Remeber those teenage movies that used to be around when we were still kids. And when the guy told the girl how he really felt, they both had an instant make out?

I saw this used by yad from daygame and there the girl cracked up and thought it was funny. In this situation however, I do not think that my target will giggle, she might just stay silent with hopeful eyes of excitement or either give token resistance which I will again counter by SEC.

Either way, SEC happens and after a second or two, I inch closer and closer and BOOM! Mission success! Our lips lock, I take my hands away from hers and wrap them around her waist.

A few minutes later and we're back with our friends and nothing ever happened. Whether it's a relationship I get into (which I don't really care about) or a one-kiss stand, if there be such thing, I am fine either way.

your plan is good (Considering its a success as long as you make a solid attempt), but also remember nothing EVER goes exactly according to plan. If you cannot adapt you may have a problem. Dont go so stiff with your plan either, be a little more loose. Invision how you think it will go down, but dont plan every move you make according to how you invision it.

this is clearly a very different situation, since i was about 12 years old when i pulled this, but there was one girl i like for like 2 years. 3 months before i told her i liked her, i hyped up the secret of who i liked and she was dying to know. The second i told her she kinda freaked. Again i was 12, but still haha.

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FAIL PROOF PICK UP LINE: excuse my, im sorry to bother you but my father beats me, can i have your number.

You're doing this out of inexperience and that's ok, I'm posting because ice been through all that.

What will happen is you'll be really worked up all night thinking about how your master plan will go, and then when you go to do it, you'll be way nervous.

Also the odds are a billion to one that she will not give a reaction you expect.

And for "plans" in general, real life has a thousand different thing that can happen at any turn, and you're planning for one specific path through all those possibilities. It isn't going to happen.

but certainly, having ideas of cool things to do is good - however, you store them at the back of your mind, ready to spring to action at the right moment. What's driving you is whats happening in the moment. You should be living in the moment, either reacting to what's happening or realising the current moment is the perfect time to do x, or the thing you just thought of.

Cool ideas like the steps in your plan are just a few ideas that may or may not be useful one day.

As for the actions in the plan itself, it's really out of touch with reality.

Saying you're crazy about a girl, is generally never good, see the above post. There are times when that may be appropriate, like a guy I know was constantly hanging out with this girl and they were always getting along well, but she kept saying too bad she already has a boyfriend. One day he called her and said "basically my heart's yours to break" they ended the call, she thought about it for a short while, then called the boyfriend guy and dumped him. He was a loser and she realised she was getting along much better with my friend, but it took that for her to realise.

But unless youre in that kind of situation, it's not going to be good. If the girl is not ready to hear that, she'll be freaked out, no one wants someone devoting so much attention to them when they aren't devoting the same amount back.

And sexual tension is a lot of things, not just staring - she has to be feeling this from all the other things you've been doing and saying. Staring itself doesn't create sexual tension.

What you want to be doing is practice living in the moment as I described earlier - so you can walk outside or pick up the phone and feel ready for anything without making elaborate plans. Just ideas. You can plan to start something, but you can't plan a whole sequence of events in such detail, you can only have some good ideas - 90% of the interaction should just be living in the moment and feeling her vibe.

And if you feel insecure about doing that, it means you're not frequently looking out for opportuniies to talk to random girls in day to day life, such as in the supermarket, public transport, in the street, day to day life. Even when you do feel confident about it, you have to keep doing it - it has to be something that you "do". So that it's normal.

You guys are absolutely right. Nothing ever goes according tpo plan. Sometimes, I like to think of PU as a military operation, it almost never is linear and there is always some improvisation needed. haha

Yea conker, I really am inexperienced. I'm turning 17 this year and I've never been kissed before... Haha,.. it's so sad it's not even funny,..

Anyways, this oepration was to kick in on monday, however, I stalled and her car arrived,.. . Anyways, I had no class yesterday on tuesday so today I made th decision that it would be the day Operation Escalation would happen.

Anyways, plz look out for my field report somewhere in the appropriate thread with probably the same title as this post.

Thanks for the response guys!! :P

Hey Aspired, its me AV lol
dude if that's wat really happend then, wtf u accomplished it dude!!
Next week, U teach me all u've learned and ima try mine out! and ive read the VinDiCarlo's escalation ladder! pretty impressive shit

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Game is the EXPRESSION OF YOUR INNER STATE, conveyed by the rhythms you use to direct the energy of the interaction.

Don't be ashamed - if you're getting into it at 17 you've got a huge head start on me.

Also worth mentioning is we like to say "it's like a military operation" because it makes us feel safer. People want to be sure of outcomes and men particularly like discrete steps, and a "military operation" is very masculine imagery. But this is just fooling yourself for a temporary feel good. Only when you become comfortable, and even excited about the unknown, will you be making progress.