Hey guys, the other night I met this tall Brazilian girl at a nightclub. I isolated her from her friends and danced with her for a couple songs. She had definitley taken an interest in me. I asked her "So what brings you here tonight?" and she replied "It's my friends 21st b-day." Then I said "well I don't want to keep you from celebrating with her, let me get your number." And so she gave me the number, which was cool, but I was hoping she would be like "Oh it's ok, come and join us." or something like that.

So I left her, but the night was still young and I was on a role. I was talking to all kinds of girls and scoring numbers. I didn't want to stop, I mean I was having a good night. I started dancing with this other chick, and I noticed the Brazilian chick walked right by and looked at us. I didn't think too much about it until now. I've been trying to text her and she won't respond. I'm wondering if her seeing me dancing with another girl turned her off? and I'm wondering if I should've stayed with her? I just don't want to come across as desperate or needy and I figured that her seeing me with other girls could only work to my advantage. Maybe she has classified me as a player... I'm not sure what to do, but this is definitley a girl I want to see again..

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Tryna "Wife" Them Bad Girls

I'm not an expert, but if she's not texting back that's a pretty bad sign. You may or may be wrong about her being turned off, but regardless, she stopped texting you. Call up one of the other numbers you got the other night?

I've been in contact with 4 other girls from that night, but this girl was really what I like. Tall, curvy, and tan. The other girls are decent and would be nice to hang out with, but this chick was sexy.

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Tryna "Wife" Them Bad Girls

That really sucks man, I don't know what to tell you. Seems like she's flaking

"A friend mine once said he banged a 10! I have him beat, because I banged 5 twos!"

I remember George Carlin saying something like that.


I think four girls can make up for this one.

Oh and if you haven't called her yet try that. If she doesn't answer, move on.

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haha that's a funny line. Yea I was thinking about giving her a call. Maybe she's not much of a texter. I'd just like to be able to talk to her so I can make up some BS about how later on that night, in the club, some crazy drunk girl wouldn't leave me alone and kept dancing with me and how I was too nice to tell her to leave me alone and I kept giving her subtle hints, but she wouldn't get the message. I just need a way to knock down the "player" status she probably pegged me with. Maybe she'll buy the story or maybe not. I could be like "I saw you walk by, you should've come over and rescued me!"

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Tryna "Wife" Them Bad Girls

Why do you want to knock off your player status? That's the whole point of PUAs, making yourself attractive to girls, Idc if ppl call me player, but I go home every night with more than 1 girl. If she flakes out because she saw you getting other girls so easy, then the problem lies with her, not you. She probably has low self-esteem, and just using that as her excuse for not being to keep up or handle you.
Rather than trying to lower yourself to her level and being needy, you should just f-close the other 4 girls in the mean time, that will take your mind off her. By the time you're done with them, if she's still not getting back at you, then just move on, she's not interested and not worth your time. Girl with low self-esteem always comes with drama.

Yea you're right, I guess I'll just leave the player status, it's best that way haha.

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Tryna "Wife" Them Bad Girls