This girl that I met about a month ago and have been hanging out on the weekends with has just started to flake out on me like crazy. Today, she was giving me one word no effort responses during our texts today. She never does this so I asked "I may be reading the situation wrong, but I'm getting the vibe you're unhappy with me." She responds "I am". Then I say "Can I ask why?". She then goes into this whole spiel about how unattractive it is that I never offer to pay for anything or that I let her friends cover for me as well as some other things.

So basically she is calling me cheap. The thing is, I've never really gone out on an official date with this girl, everything has been casual and usually involves friends. If it was a "date" then I would be more inclined to pay for things. I feel like I do my part tho, because I've made all the effort in making sure we see each other. I've been driving like 40 minutes to her house. She has yet to drive and see me.

And the thing is, her friend never technically covered for me. I ordered 2 drinks at this bar which came to like $12. I had a 20 and I was like I owe $15 including the tip so I'll need $5 back. Her friend was like "I'll get your cover charge at the next place.", which was $5. So I agreed to that and that was fine. Then when we got to the other place, her friend bought me a drink, but that was because we had agreed that he would pay for this round and I would pay for next round. So at the end of the night we're even. But she doesn't want to hear it, I think she is expecting me to eat the costs and basically cover her and her friends.

The most rediculous thing she said was about when I went to a club with her for New Years and she and her friends had gotten a hotel. At the end of the night she asked what me and my friend were doing and I said that I was going to my friends house. She said no I want you to come to the hotel with us. So we stayed in the hotel with her and her 2 girlfriends. She is now saying that she thinks it's bullshit that I didn't offer to help pay for the hotel?! are you kidding me?

And then out of nowhere, while this text convo is going on, she says, "I'm not saying that you're trying to be with me, but you're definitley not over your ex girlfriend, its obvious and I do't want to get in the middle of that, but we'll see." For one, I broke up with my ex about 7-8months ago. She has a new BF now and has moved far far away. And I'm the one that broke the relationship off. How could I not be over it, it was all my idea?

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This girl sounds like a bitch, holy crap. D:

Do yourself the favor and ditch her. Hanging out with her and friends does NOT constitute as a date!

Romantic Dinner for two = DATE
Clubbing with a group of friends = NOT DATE

She's immature and wants someone to cater to her and might just be a gold digger.

Cut her off.

There are tons of non-bitch fish in the sea.

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Wow. I cant believe this fucked up story. Bro... It seems to me she found interest elsewhere and used this bs excuse to cover her tracks. You may have just been outgamed. What a facade. Or maybe shes just a psycho bitch and you dont want any of that brosive...

Like the last reply, I think you need to find yourself a non-bitch in the sea.

Typically, I go for an f close with a coal digger prior to moving on. I don't know what it is. . . I might be attracted to their ineptness to dig gold. I might be attracted to the non-filtered view of their heart. Either way, there's something about these miners that really turn me on.

1. You need a social circle that is a few levels higher on the social scale than hers. (Doesn't take too much work as coal diggers are typically bottom of the barrel stuff)
2. At no time do you EVER hang out with her and her friends.
3. Everything that you do and say around her is about partying around the World and chillin' with the who's who of the World as if it's a bother . . .and you want something more real and substantial out of life.
4. Ms. Cheesy Coal Digger takes on the "substantial" and "real" role.
5. You fuck Ms. Substantial.
6. You party on with your higher status friends.

*She is this way because 1 through 6 happens to her all the time. 1 through 6 happens to her all the time because she is this way. Regardless of what you think, you are a participant of this game. You can either offer her a coal mine or you can create an honest miner out of her.

SMASHED IT

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