so i made plans with this one girl I've been talking to for a couple months to watch a movie at her place cause we had talked about how she loves Inception and she loves the subtle symbolism and hidden meanings and I go "o I totally need to watch it with you so you can explain it to me" so she agreed and tomorrow we're gonna watch Inception and hang out and whatever

I made these plans on Friday

should I text her today and be like "so what time are you free tomorrow?" or just see if she texts me at all?

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I'm about to scoop your girl up like a groundball

depends on how well you know her. You dont wanna come off as needy or clingy though, so i would say dont. If she wants to watch the movie with you, texting her the day of and asking "So what time are you free for tonight", or even suggesting a time yourself may be better. If she wants to watch the movie with you, she will do it without you having to text her the day before

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FAIL PROOF PICK UP LINE: excuse my, im sorry to bother you but my father beats me, can i have your number.

the way to ask a girl out is by 'offering' not asking permission, never ask "Do you want to go out tonight?" or "will you go out with me?" or "so what time are you free tomorrow?". They are all questions which AFCs do. they make a guy sound needy, desperate, dependent on doing something with her.

so before offering a date, let her know how busy and sociable you are. girls want guys who are difficult to get. usually in rapport with girls, to make sure she does not flake on u after the first meeting, there's a pua principle called 'seeding'. this is when u in plant an invitation in the conversation with her but u havent actually invited her. for example, you could say that "im thinking of going to this really cool bar sometime next week which i heard about". now usually when a guy mentions to a girl about going to a bar, club or party that u know, the girl will always expects the guy to automatically invite her. but what you would do is just to mention the party or the bar and continue on the conversation. this will catch the girl off guard and the girl will be thinking "hey, this guy is pretty cool (depending on the attraction and rapport), but he has just mentioned this party but why is he not asking me out?". she will think this and will be more compelled and desperate for you to ask her and she realises that she needs to work in order to get the invitation. women want to go to things that are hard to get into, exclusive and even more if they are told they cant go. people always want to go to things when they have been told they cant go. sounds so forbiden and interesting.

dont be in the position to be waiting for a girl to call you, women are lazy or busy but definitely unreliable. you make the contact. but when u contact, dont sound like you are too eager to see her, bad sign to show that ur desperate. in between texting a girl, act like u dont care if she ever replies back. i know it sounds crazy, but it does not feel good waiting, checking ur phone every so often seeing if the girl replies. have the frame of mind that u dont care about a reply, then u will feel less anxious, and more focused on ur game.

Hope that i have helped. happy gaming dude

^^ agreed. It is also important to give and take with showing interest. if you dont give ANY then they may not chase. be playful with text messages, but do not seems needy or always looking for validation. there is a balance.

^^ agreed. It is also important to give and take with showing interest. if you dont give ANY then they may not chase. be playful with text messages, but do not seems needy or always looking for validation. there is a balance.