Hello everyone, new here, generally I just lurk occasionally to view advice on text game. However, this situation has led me to make a real account, to hear some advice.
There's this hot girl in my high school (we both do drama, she's a year older), that's been talking to me recently. (some back and forth, mostly her initiation though) The problem is though, she's got a boyfriend of about 4 years who's in the military, so I've just disregarded her as simple flirting/cockteasing. However, the more she talks/flirts with me, the more I question if she's serious or not. (some serious IOIs) This conversation on Facebook chat is what really set me off though:
Her:
*after i got her to admit she finds me hot, along with half the girls in our drama department* lol oh so u actually care tht ur on tht list? (list of guys she finds hot)
n u drive me crazy kid
9:40pm
Me: (i do that to some people
) n haha actually care? you act as though i have expectations of something XD
9:41pm
Her: lol xD very truee
and whatcha mean?
9:41pm
Me: about what?
9:42pm
Her: "you act as though i have expectations of something XD."
9:42pm
Me: as in, you thinking i'm hot means something, when it doesn't really
9:44pm
Her: hmm..
i do believe u have left me at a loss for words
9:45pm
Me: haha why?
9:47pm
Her: lol i dont know how to respond to tht
9:47pm
Me: oh, i figured i confused you or something
9:48pm
Her: nope
i just rly dont know what to say to tht
it was rly unexpected
i like u. ur different. most guys would just be like hellz yeah she thinks im hot but ur different. i like tht
9:51pm
Me: it's what i do
it's just the attitude i have, i'm very blunt n i disregard what's meaningless. and in reality, aside from an ego boost, that (hotness thing) means nothing
but thanks anyways
9:51pm
Her: lol ur welcome.
u rly r driving me crazy kid..
9:52pm
Me: haha how so?
9:52pm
Her: lol dont worry about it.
9:53pm
Me: haha what, my hotness getting to you? XD
9:54pm
Her: lol get outta here
9:54pm
Me: kinda hard to get outta da internet... (n i'll take that as a yea XD)
9:55pm
Her: haha ok mr literal
n its a few things about u. not just tht
although tht doesnt help
9:55pm
Me: XD
9:56pm
Her: i mean i know its meaningless n all but do u even realize how fuckin hot u r? just wonderin
9:57pm
Me: haha that actually made me lol (though compliments do that for some reason) but nah, probably not
9:58pm
Her: lol well if there was a way to enlighten u i would because u deff r
9:59pm
Me: yea, i've had people ask me that question before. i can kinda see it i suppose, but i don't know what it is that makes a guy hot, so it's hard for me to judge/make a comparison. compliments never hurt though
10:02pm
Her: lol well i could give u a list of things but id sound creepy as shit
so ill refrain
10:03pm
Me: go for it XD
10:03pm
Her: lol once again ill refrain
10:04pm
Me: lol alright. i'm getting tired, n it's best i stop steaming up your computer anyways XD so i'll ttyl. arrivederci
*left while interest was high*
10:05pm
Her: lol
alright papa ttyl
Now, I'm no homewrecker (seriously, 4 years), but that conversation left me pretty baffled. Up until now, I've viewed her as just teasing for an ego boost/fun, but this sounds like she could be serious. I wouldn't even consider this if she wasn't so damn hot and interesting, and I'll still stay casual about the whole thing, but do you guys think there's any shot here? Any general advice/insight would be appreciated.
CHAT
Still thanks for the feedback, I'm just unsure how I could get her alone/over my house. 