just got out of a 2 year relationship, DEFINITELY excited to get back into the game. my social circle changed and grew and grew some more. i haven't gone to bars without the girl i was dating. (don't blame me for dating a girl who looks like Sara Jean Underwood for that long) but last week i just went out, got shot down SO MUCH but being honest i loved it. then toned my skills back to where they used to be. anyways whatever we didn't work out for now.

everyone in my group knew i used to go to bars a lot but none really knew how good i used to be at pick up. excuse me.. how good "i AM" at pick up. but they do know that i dated what most guys consider to be a HB10, and that my nickname is "Big Nick" for 1 reason (btw i'm really skinny). therefore, the girls in my "crew" i really don't have to DHV at all.

my question is, how do i game on a girl in my group that i've known for quite some time now? thats one of the few things i'd love to incorporate in my game for the challenge mostly. all the girls i'm assuming are in LJBF mode, but i can't say i've really used any PUA material on them, but i really did just want friendship with these people.

i really never knew how to get out of the LJBF mode anyways. any tips?

Hey man !

I actually am in the same situation of you : I am in a relation with a girl for 1.5 years now, but we are about to break up. I definitly love her, and I'd like it to work, but things don't ever go like we want. Gaming, again after almost 2 years, is very exciting for me, so we will see.

In your situation, you have to change her view on you. Until now, she saw you as the boy in "couple", so that can only be a friend for her. So she placed you in the "LJBF" category. I think that you have first of all to go out (to bars or night clubs) with this girl, and other friends. This night, talk to her a lot, and show another side of your personnality, and play man ! But do it well, you know her for quite a lot, so don't do some shit. And dance with her.
Your image will change ! If you do it very well, you'll be able to have her in this night (but not more than a kiss I think).

What you will have to do, is only to continue your game and still go out with your friends (and the girl). You'll have the possibility to have her another night

Good luck man !

yeah, i have been taking them out to the clubs, 3 times in a week and the girl i was talking about is now seeing me differently i can tell. dancing with girls really does something to their image of you lol. but i still find it awkward running game on her when its just a group of us chilling. anything i can try?

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Actually, no.

If you got LJBFed because you had the chance to escalate and then didn't (i.e. you acted like a pussy) THEN you do need to freeze out, change her view on you by being flirty and sexual, be seen with other women, etc.

If you're friends because you already had a hot GF, then all you have to do is go out with the social circle, isolate the one you like, escalate a bit, and then take her to your place and then kiss, and then fuck.

The basic strategy is you have to show her that you're going to be discreet about you two hooking up, because she doesn't want to be seen as a slut by the peer group, or as your "rebound girl." As long as you show her through your actions and words that it's a little secret thing between you two (i.e. touching under the table, a little sideways glance, NO KISSING in the club where everyone can see) then you can build sexual tension massively and then release it when you get to your place.

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