Ok I just went ahead and sent this. I think it'll work. There was a hint of shyness in her last message, so I went with this.

Me: "That's not what I thought at first...well ok, let's see, your modest, with a slight sense of humor. I like modesty, but we might need to bring your inner comedian out a little and "knows how to have a good time"... Great! I don't see why we shouldn't mee..... Oh wait, no. It may not work. You're a rodeo girl, (I've never been to one before). Darn, we were so close...

Ok, I going to go against my better Judgement here and say let's chat anyway, I know it's a big leap but let's chat sometime. Since it might be too soon to exchange #'s (unless your comfortable) we can chat online at first, otherwise you seem like you'd be a cool friend! "

I know you said you already sent this, but this would be my revisions, I don't know... I'm not really feeling the rodeo girl and I think that you're DLV'ing when you say "unless your comfortable", I get the feeling she wants a take charge kinda guy, so be that guy unless you're submissive by nature. But Lemme try this..

Me: "That's not what I thought at first...well ok, let's see, your modest, with a slight sense of humor. I like modesty, but we might need to bring your inner comedian out a little and "knows how to have a good time"... Great! I don't see why we shouldn't mee..... Oh wait, no. It may not work. You're a rodeo girl, You probably have man hands, and I like a girl with a soft touch... Darn, we were so close...

Ok, I going to go against my better Judgement here and say let's chat anyway, I know it's a big leap but let's chat sometime. I'm not quite ready to give you my # (you could turn out to be a serial killer or worse... a rodeo clown) but if you want to give me yours or if you SPAM/IM we could do that, and if nothing else, you seem like you'd be a cool friend! "

I'd love to know what her response is to yours! I'm always interested in the responses!

Flagg.

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"Liars sit in chairs, you know. Truth tellers just sort of hunker down" -RF

Hey it worked out

Her:
haha...well you need to learn to be a rodeo man...they are a lot of fun!! And going against my better judgment...heres my number so we can chat more...(her number)

I'll probably call her tomorrow when I get back home from winter break, I'm getting nervous because I've never done this before and I've been out of the game for more than a year. I've usually talked on the phone after meeting in person.

Any tips on the first call? I don't want to freeze up or sound nervous.

Awesome man!! Nice!

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"Liars sit in chairs, you know. Truth tellers just sort of hunker down" -RF

Hey guys thanks for all the help. I'm officially at the next step and will be talking to her tomorrow on the phone. Here is the story of how my text convo went a few hours ago if you are interested.

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