agreed that insecurity and jealous will destory attraction and kill a relationship. Also agreed that a ton of the best girls often have more guy friends.

Having said that, there is a big difference between not being insecure and blindly trusting a girl you just met(and snl) when there are ovious red flags. Do you think this girl didn't have fuck buddy's before you came along? Most hot girls do, so do you think she automatically put an end to all of them right at the start of your relationship? I am really not trying to make you paranoid I am just saying to not be oblivious to red flags in the sake of not being jealous and insecure.

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@ carmo

I read your previous posts and I think you see red flags where there are not in everything!

@ everyone else

IF another girl warns you about another one make sure FIRST she is not jealous of her or she is that girls enemy. Girls are not little angels. Most are little devils. So be very aware of the girl that gives you this kind of advice and take it with a grain of salt. Wait and see.

Give this girl time and stop over thinking.

Well I've had some girlfriends with lots of guy friends, more guy friends than girlfriends, and lets say it didn't end well, she cheated on me numerous times, and it left me feeling pretty stupid
I say you should tread carefully, and don't get emotionally invested to quick, and for the most part I avoid getting into a LTR with girls like that

Never mind guys, it's over.

Amen.

Never act jealous, but if you believe that she is cheating and have proof (not just rationalizing it to yourself) then simply NEXT her. I know this community emphasizes never showing any signs of jealousy, but I strongly believe that lines must still be drawn. If my girlfriend ever told me "I'm gonna visit my ex's family for three days in Pennsylvania" she would never hear from me again. No bickering or arguments.

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I don't think I showed any jealousy. Thing is I wasn't going to blindly trust her, I've been in relationships before where I've just let the girl do whatever the fuck she wants and trusted her 100%, thinking it was the right thing to do, then got cheated on. The other day I noticed she'd been sending messages to lads on Facebook again and on another site called tagged, but this time her relationship statuses were set to single. That did it.

If your not happy, do what your doing, and walk away mate.

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Good chance shes cheating but...



I always wake up with scratches and shit all over my body. Guess i scratch myself in my sleep. She was prolly scratching her ass....seriously, when was the last time you clawed a girls ass when banging her....?