first things first sorry I wrote alot...Just alot happened and its bugging me

So I used to talk to this girl about a year ago (hb9) tried number closing but got an excuse from her instead so I rolled off. I never thought anything of her after that because at the time she was talking to one of my friends and ended up going out with him for a couple of months. Now I find out while i was talking to her she actually had very strong feelings for me... (she told my bestfriend/wingman)... sending a message maybe? lol Now I want to finally hook her but this girl is difficult shes quiet to many people she doesnt know too well and i haven't ever really hung out with her one on one (I know I gotta get cracking on that ) and I've probably hung out with her maybe like 3 times.

The other night I finally got the change to get under her skin me and my wing took her and her twin (HOT ) to a really popular club. At first i was joking around with her negging her. Then the club starts getting packed and we start grinding. We were holding each others hands and she was letting me feel on her thighs, stomach I was holding her and my head was right over her shoulder and we were cheek to cheek (which I see as a major ioi).

Now the issue. The girl gets tired and she begins to get dizzy and asks to get some air so... me my wing hb9 and her twin go outside fo some air and while I was away my wing tells hb9 "why don't you hook up with him?" and she says "not right now"...WTFFF?? now im confused. I practically felt up every part of her body made her laugh and kissed her neck while we were dancing and she didn't get mad about it or anything. I know my wing shouldn't have asked her anything but from the beggining of the night i had a feeling this wasn't the night i was going to hook up with her. This was the night to build rapport.

So since that night i haven't seen her or talked to her but I talked to her sister (obstacle) to try and make her sister see me as fun, funny etc so she can DHV me. My wing is very close friends with her and talks to her on a daily bases and just the other day she tells him that she had found out one of her friends that i used to talk to (JUST TALK! NOT EVEN GAME HER!!) likes me and she doesn't know if she can do anything with me because she thinks it would be f'd up to her friend...

All I want to know is How do i seal the deal with this girl? I really like her and want to make her my girlfirend but shes difficult to get with and shes too nice and doesn't want to hurt anybody I guess but her not being with me is hurting me more

She was enjoying the moment...just because she says no to your friend doesn't mean that her mind is made up...she probably doesn't want to come off looking bad and if she is quiet and shy...she is probably wondering what the hell happened, but in a good way.
Why didn't you get her number?
I think you built more that just rapport, you showed intent...definitely got out of the LJBF zone but touching her. No going over board shows a level of respect for her, ok.

Now if another of her friends likes you, this is where the number would have come in handy, to build on that night and show her you like her, im sure feeling would have built up from that night if she was in to you. Now, some girls to have this "girl code" that if another is interested, then they themselves will steer clear to not upset the friend, especially if they are good friends.

Ok, what do you do here??? Plan another outing...find her...tell her that you had an amazing time with her and that she has been on your mind...if she is a nice and shy girl, this won't be taken as AFC and if she likes you...it can score you points. It's the girls that know they got it that are the ones you need to be more aggressive with, shy timid girls are more insecure about themselves and don't seem to think to they are all that great...any sincere compliment will be good but don't go overboard either, there still has to be a balance.

If you want her, you need to go after her and utilize your friend, from the sounds of this, this girl isn't going to come looking for you but does sound like she is into you, don't let too much time pass on this!

Go get her!

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You can't make the same mistake twice, the second time you make it, it's no longer a mistake, it's a choice.

This is why night game isn't the best place to pick up girls.
Girls let guys grind on them all the time on the dance floor. It doesn't mean that you have built enough attraction and she's ready to go home with you. Those kino means nothing because everybody is doing the same on the dance floor.
If she let you finger her right one the spot, then it would be another story.
But you still have your chance. She said "not right now", she haven't said NO. However, be aware that if she's too nice, she might be a timewaster.
Keep an eye on her body language around you, don't overanalyze grinding kino, and do some REAL SEXUAL TENSION kino to see how she reacts.