ok. dating this chick. she is fucking nuts. like she will start massive drama, rumors, fights, whatever if i dump her ass. not sure how i ended up in it. but dammit, i'm there now.

any advice for breaking up and cutting ties as cleanly, quickly, and easily as possible?
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lol start saying you're busy when she calls, that you're on a budget (got no money) when she wants to go out and act emotionless in front of all drama.. try to distance yourself

restraining order, Cutting off all ties with her, Warn your friend ahead of times, change phone number, Move far away if possible and keep your head on a swivel its gonna be rough man, i'm not gonna lie. chicks like this is the reason i dont like to take girls home. you can tell to once you are with her. Emotionally damage and its not gonna get any better. Do it now before it gets any worst.

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is it really that bad?? moving, changing number, etc.

Be straight up with her. WERE DONE i thought you were someone completely different and you changed on me

How long have you been seeing this girl? If its been a matter of weeks...cut the thread bro! This isn't going to go anywhere unless this is your thing.

Be honest...don't be a dick but just be straight up and say....this isn't working out.

No matter how you put it...you are trying to tell her that you don't want her anymore, there is NO real easy way to do it, so just do it...this girl sounds like a whack job and you sure as hell can find a girl with decency and integrity without all the drama.

Ok...here's a thought...If you want to let her down easy...tell her you are going to be working odd hours at work that will not allow you to spend time with her...your getting two jobs and don't have time...take your pick, but do it soon.

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hey guys. thanks for the replies.

actually, i've been seeing her for almost a year...i know, i know.

i've tried breaking up with her like three times and she just says "no" and keeps calling me and i finally end up banging her again and somehow the cycle repeats. she goes crazy though. literally. she called me twenty-three times and left twenty-three messages last time. that was on my home phone, not to mention the cell phone.

she seemed normal at first.

Well, it seems like you know what you want to do...it's NOW just up to you on when you do it. By giving in to her when she says no...well, I think you know the answer to that one too. She isn't the only girl out there...get yourself a new girl.

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You can't make the same mistake twice, the second time you make it, it's no longer a mistake, it's a choice.

Revert back to an AFC.

Grow some balls and tell her it's over!!

Never draw out a break up, once your instincts are telling you to get put of thier then do it.

" we're done, dont call or text me. Move on" make it quick an clean without excuses. It makes it easier for her and a hell of eaiser for you to move on.

You got it bro, just make it clean an swift. And then ignore her calls for the next week. She'll stop

Also: never look back! No matter how tough it gets. Just move on! I'm made this mistake one to many times.

Fuze

Grow some balls and tell her it's over!!

Never draw out a break up, once your instincts are telling you to get put of thier then do it.

" we're done, dont call or text me. Move on" make it quick an clean without excuses. It makes it easier for her and a hell of eaiser for you to move on.

You got it bro, just make it clean an swift. And then ignore her calls for the next week. She'll stop

Also: never look back! No matter how tough it gets. Just move on! I'm made this mistake one to many times.

Fuze

i appreciate the feedback guys.

i just really want to hire a "personal assistant" to dump this chick. maybe i should fake my own death.

i did it. god help me now.

*runs off to bar the windows*