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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.

It is NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.

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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
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PostPosted: Fri Jan 14, 2011 4:02 pm 
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I haven't been gaming fo r about last 2 months because of failed one-itis which turned me into wussy. Then I got my AA back and staff, but I already dealt with it.

Now I have another thing. I guess its another form of AA. I don't feel anxiety or anything, completely cool, but my head runs empty. No openers nothing comes to my mind.

Before I turned approaching into habbit. Sometimes I had to force myself not to approach a hot chick 10 feet away from me in the library(because I had to study lol) Now I kinda lost this. I'm thinking about going over my routine, revise them, and hopefully that must help with emptiness in my head.

If anybody went trough this please tell me how you got rid of it.


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 4:33 am 
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maybe you're just rusty. practice opening a little n it should come back. As for finding ideas for openers, just think of them on a daily basis and eventually, you'll be able to freestyle them out when the opportunity occurs to approach.


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 7:23 am 
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Yea this has happened to me before. You get pretty good and then you stop doing it for a few months. It happens. Like Neil Strauss, author of 'The Game' and Master PUA said, its just like building a muscle. If you don't do it for a while, it will be a bit harder to get back into it. As humans, we have approach anxiety hardwired into us and the best PUA gets it.
For me, if I think I start to get rusty and have lots of approach anxiety, I just do the newbie mission. Just go up to 10 woman, smile, say hi, and walk away all in one day. That's all you need to do. She can be the ugly, fat lady sitting next to you on the bus, or the 60 year old woman at the grocery store.
Another thing that I recommend and I've been doing is game all time, anywhere. Whether you are at school, a grocery store, restaurant, or anywhere there is an HB you want to approach, just approach, keeping in mind the 3 second rule (approach the target within 3 seconds). The more HBs you're around, the easier it will be to approach HBs
Lately what I have been doing to help with my inner game is listen to hypnotherapy tapes . You can find lots of recommendations in these forums.
Just remember, logic is your enemy when it comes to this game.
Hope that helps you. Good luck!


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Mm yes, I definitely can relate to what you're saying. In a way I'm going through something like this myself at the moment. My mind just keeps drawing a blank in a lot of situations, so I actually get somewhat pissed off at myself for not approaching. I don't get the feelings of "She's not going to like me, I'm just wasting her time" etc., it's just basically "What the hell am I going to say after 'hey'" (I'm not confident enough to do direct approaches yet, and maybe that works better for good looking people too - I'm like 5'6" and not a real looker, haha) I'd like to think there's in no AA or fear involved in there, just a temporary lack of imagination, but I suppose somewhere deep down inside it's fear too. For the most part, though, it's definitely the not knowing what to say thing. Lucky D and Unforeseen have already given some great advice regarding this: you just have to do it and soon you'll be back to how you were before. I'm sure the confidence building part cannot be as long as it was when you first started this stuff, you're just a little rusty and after just a few succesful approaches I'd imagine you'll be back to a "fuck yeah" mindstate :)


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Yea this has happened to me before. You get pretty good and then you stop doing it for a few months. It happens. Like Neil Strauss, author of 'The Game' and Master PUA said, its just like building a muscle. If you don't do it for a while, it will be a bit harder to get back into it. As humans, we have approach anxiety hardwired into us and the best PUA gets it.
For me, if I think I start to get rusty and have lots of approach anxiety, I just do the newbie mission. Just go up to 10 woman, smile, say hi, and walk away all in one day. That's all you need to do. She can be the ugly, fat lady sitting next to you on the bus, or the 60 year old woman at the grocery store.
Another thing that I recommend and I've been doing is game all time, anywhere. Whether you are at school, a grocery store, restaurant, or anywhere there is an HB you want to approach, just approach, keeping in mind the 3 second rule (approach the target within 3 seconds). The more HBs you're around, the easier it will be to approach HBs
Lately what I have been doing to help with my inner game is listen to hypnotherapy tapes . You can find lots of recommendations in these forums.
Just remember, logic is your enemy when it comes to this game.
Hope that helps you. Good luck!
Another thing that I forgot to add is setting the frame before you approach. You could have the mindset that your target is trying to hit on you and is totally attracted to you or you can have the frame that she's a long time friend that you haven't seen in awhile. (NLP stuff btw) This will definitely change how you think of the approach when you do it.


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I don't like lying to myself(it simply doesn't work) The mindset I use is that I'm gonna approach this girl and the approach is either gonna be fun or boring-if I don't approach-no chance to have fun.-Works for me, oh and thanks to Sinn for this mindset.


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