so i've been friends with this girl for about 6 months now. she's super cool, and i wouldnt wanna fuck anything up, but ive recently realized that even if i did sleep with her it wouldnt change anything because she's so cool. shes almost like a guy in the way that she likes to have sex. in any case, i've recently had sex with her best friend, (she's so cool she really doesnt care, and is quite happy that i hit that haha) but tonight i was hanging out with her, (the friend i fucked 4 days previous was not there) i recieved a few IOIs, such as laughing at stupid jokes, giving me kino, and making overall being interested in what i had to say. so later, just before i dropped her off, i feel like i did an excellent job in trying to cat mouse, neg, and use kino with her. everything worked, i stood on the curb to show dominance, i negged her at the correct times, got her laughing and comfrotable with everything, but i didnt know how to go in for the kiss. i was partially thrown off because i didnt know how she would react, seeing as i just fucked her best friend. i decided to try anyways. but the way i did it was this
playful can and mouse banter with some kino... leads to convo about me being better than her (with some kino), then to guys being better than girls... to this:
(i have my arm around her at this time)

hb 7: girls are so better than guys

me: name one way

hb 7: i cant think of any!

me: haha well then guys are better! you have yet to prove me wrong.

hb 7: ugh not true. you think of a way!

me: i have lots (all the while with a big smile) how about kissing for starters. (bigger smile)

hb 7: haha ohhh you dont even know.

me (seductively while leaning in for a kiss): prove me wrong.

hb 7: (turns her head): i'm not kissing you.

she wasnt mad but she was just uncomfortable with the idea.

i'm fairly certain that it was because of the friend i fucked, but what could i have done to make her more likely to kiss me or something. i read all of these stories about mPUAs seducing sisters, best friends etc, so i know there is a way, i would just like to see if i can get help finding it etc

Im so in similar situation right now that it's crazy(lol).Only difference is,my girls are sisters.

Some PU- school of thought would say that it's good to prep the girl for the kiss by telling her you're gonna kiss her.

That could work in some cases,but Im of the view that it should be spontaneous.

Perhaps that's what went wrong in your case;the target preferred spontaneous to being preped.

Besides that,could like your chat dialogue with this girl and how you focused on banter-which's the key.

And the best mood for attempting kiss is on a very-light note(banterish/flirty)as you did perfectly.

But does she know about you laying her friend?

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haha ya she knows about it, i am the one that winged this kid so he could lay the friend and in doing so had to run interference on the HB7 for a couple of nights, trust me on this one, i say he is waaay to far into the friends zone for anything to happen here, hate to get down on you brake but im tryin to be honest...i could have sworn ive seen you go in for a k-close in the past(granted im pretty sure u were drunk that time too) and get rejected...if you wanted to get this one you should have started from the get go....word of advice, dont try and turn all your female friends into lays because chances are, you wont be the same type of friends after the lay(women are possessive)....female friends are great to have around to talk to about shit and guess what? they bring others into the picture

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@Pistol-Lol,wow nice job at winging it;Im becoming impressed at your game.

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haha thanks bro, but i can always improve just like anyone else

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haha cause hb 7 put up a huge fight about me laying hb 8 ;P
but yeah we are pretty far down the friends path, but the thing is, hb 7 is so different that i think it could work. if it ever does it will be one of those spontaneous things that just happens because we're so close. not there yet. haha but yeah its probably better to keep her as a friend. unless we get plastered... etc