Hey Ya'll, I have a bit of a challenge with a "game" aware HB8, wondered if you can help or I should let the little fishy go?

It's an OKCupid user and I've been experimenting with opener's on her to see what kind of response I get back depending on the message context. My own approach is cocky funny and normally based on something I pick up out of their profile, but I'm not one say my method is best without trying others.

On this particular chick I tried the Marriage - Divorce routine about the imaginary relationship that I end in divorce... to which she responded;

HB8 "Did you read the game"

Now at this point I'm like...damn she's either a dude who knows about stuff in this forum or one clever bitch who's possibly heard it before, so anyways;

ME "Neil Strauss is famous for other books too you know, let me guess - you're a player?"

HB8 "What did you think about the book?"

ME "I thought is was a great incite into social dynamics, an interesting zero to hero story that every guy can relate to in one way or another, I thought one of the main characters had some serious issues and it proved most men and women can't be trusted, what did you think"?

HB8 "It's quite right about certain concepts, I just think if you have to go and learn how to pick up women and learn a bunch of lines, you are the not the kind of guy I would sleep with"

So obviously the clever little lady has thrown in a neg to try and force me to validate myself...

How would you all proceed?

I'd either be cocky back, or leave her to it, her head is to far up her own ass.

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Thanks Chelios!

Do you not see this as an opportunity to school her though? I'd be willing to take all the shots for some other dudes to game her then throw it in her face just for fun, surely the whole challenge of it all is appealing?!

This is how I responded;

ME "Yeah I agree the canned stuff is lame but i've done a bit of psychology and the reason I heard of the game is because we studied NLP and Ross Jeffries

I don't want to sleep with every girl on here, most hotties are dicks to be honest, for me to find a girl sexy there has to be something between the ears too, it's nice to be playful and to have a bit of fun with someone, if i can't bounce of someone they bore me, simple.

Oh and trust me, if you knew me you would want to sleep with me!"

Thoughts?!

Yeah you could, if you want to put your time into that?


Your response was good, you DHV'd yourself and showed a bit of intelligence. She will probably google Ross Jeffries now and come up with a smart ass comment so be prepared.

I would have added " You've know about the game but you still assume? Come on lady!"

Bit less direct than saying "iF you knew me you'd want to sleep with me"

Just my bit

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Let's see what/If she comes back then try spoon feeding her own shit back too her...

I reckon she is going to make me wait for a little bit as this seems to be her response pattern, even though i can see she's been on my profile a couple of times already...

Still though, this could be a dude from here doing a bit of research, i have serious FAKE paranoia!!

Cheers for the wisdom, lapping it up like Tyler Durden LOL!

Good shit man.

That's why online, don't take it so serious unless you number close, because really, you don't know who the hell is typing messages to you.

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Okkkk

HB8 "So u r a PUA?"

I'm thinking I should go with something like

"I'm an AMOG, I don't need corny lines or to trick you into sleeping with me"

or

"If I'm a PUA then you are too, we've both read the same book..,Are you running game on me to try and trick me into giving you my number?"

or

"Whatever I tell you you're not going to believe, As you're so clever; why don't we have a proper conversation and you can work me out for yourself?"

Come on people lets get this bitch!! hahahaha

"If I'm a PUA then you are too, we've both read the same book..,Are you running game on me to try and trick me into giving you my number?"

Maybe add a little something about why girls like her make it so hard for conversation, throw in a neg, bring her bitch shield down!

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Haha! I went for this;

"If I'm a PUA then you are too, we've both read the same book..,Are you running game on me to try and trick me into giving you my number?

You're either obsessively paranoid; maybe cuz some dude calling himself a PUA has "game'd" you and broke your heart or maybe you're a PUA yourself who's set this fake profile up to do a bit of research and pick on genuine and awesome guys like me!

So what's it to be Missy/Mr?"

I like it, cocky and confident. If she's a bitch back, don't reply.

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Cheers mate, i'm slowly learning

HB8: "I liked your last message, you seem genuine!"

BOOOOM...and the bitch shield is GONE!!!

Well done, now she's your date if you play it right.

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Here we go again!!

ME: "Are you always this nice to guys you're interested in?"

HB8: "Well I'm just spontaneous and say what I think"

ME: "Yeah I have the same affliction...I tend to do or say things, spur of the momoent...Hey maybe if i gave you my bank details, social networking accounts and passwords...you think you'd trust me?"

HB8: "No Way "

ME: "Well you're going to have to get to know me and figure me out for yourself, what's your number?"

HB8: "That's a bit too early for that, isn't it "

ME: "Yeah you're right, it would be a bit too spontaneous of you to do that"

HB8: "Well I don't know you"

ME: "Which is why I'm giving you a chance to get to know me, i'm willing to risk it!"

HB8: "What do you do for a job?"

ME: "I'm a Project Manager, let me guess...you're a ball breaker?!"

ME: "Hey you're kind of interesting for a Pick Up Artist, I have to go into a meeting now but you can txt me on 077*********"

I feel like I rushed the last couple of messages because I was getting bugged to go into a conference meeting...grrr

Have i fooked it?!

No way have you fucked it, she said your interesting in those exact words, and she gave you her number. It's game on man!

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That's me giving her my number because i had to breeze to a meeting! doh...