| Hi guys,
So I've been gaming this HB10 to like me, I know she likes me, she is sort of in my friend's circle but she's the least of the girls around, so we hardly consider ourselves friends.
Recently, I've been trying to get to meet her alone, but since our mutual friends are close friends of both of us I haven't told most of them about what's going on, so they end up becoming obstacles without realising and I fear someone telling her. As I can recall, I met her only once before alone for lunch, and last night she asked "what WE (the group) are up to?" so I said I will let her know later, eventually, I gamed my way to be invited to her's alone when she was home alone...
We never even k-closed before and I've been taking things slowly, not because of her, but because I am sort of the alpha male of our friend circle so I don't want to fuck it up, also because she really is very nice deep inside, unlike other bitches I know.
But here's what happened last night when I went to hers and we were isolated for the second time:
- We exchanged little presents (from xmas/ny), mine was a lot more expensive and she commented that "its expensive", she seemed to like it
- She was comfortable on her bed when I was on the edge of it trying to get comfortable, so not a close distance between us ,watching some shizzle on TV. (first time in her house when friends were around she asked me to get closer to become more comfortable)
- I started slightly nervous and hid it very well, eventually we were talking, she breaks the silence 90% of the time
- I kept deep eye contact til she couldnt keep up anymore
- We mainly talked about "people" and I assured her (truely) that I feel the same way
- I teased her once or twice
- About an hour of this then I excuse myself to leave as I have things to attend to, a hug and I'm off on my way
What hurts me the most is that I felt like something was missing, I could of fuckin done something even though im an unexperienced AFC, that I was actually trying to be myself but I had nothing going on, because with my female friends, I really do know how to keep them entertained, I change the mood of those girls and have them do whatever I ask for whenever I text them. I just felt like I wasn't fully comfortable, but I had a really good confidence look even though I didn't neg much and infact, just wanted to talk so kinda switched my game off...
This morning I managed to get her to come and get something to eat in the student union, I decided on the place, she dragged along another mutual good friend we havent seen in a while so we joined other friends who I already knew were already there (plan B) and then there was me again being the dictator of the table, making funny comments and talking to every friend that passes by our table (proof of high social status)...
I know she's a little interested still but really really really need advice and help as to what I should of done, and what the second approach should be, I've been adviced by a good female friend of mine to just tell her "I wanna do something with you alone".
Guys please, any comments, advice anything that would help would be highly appreciated
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