so im in college and just started back this semester. i just found out that a family friends sister who is my age is starting school here. i saw her a long time ago but was never intoduced. so before i came back to school my aunt gave me her number. i figured what the hell, so i called her and told her i would show her around and we would get lunch. so we did and hit it off extremly well. later that night she texted me and what not, got the whole smiley face thing at the end. next morning i ended up taking her to school because it snowed alot and she wasnt use to drivin in it. while in class i pocket dialed her twice. later that day she acted a little distant. so i gave it a break. i texted her tonite and told her i was gettin people together to go out for dinner tommorrow nite.
HER: ya that would be good i just have to make sure i get my work done
ME: Lol, its the first week, you know you dont have work. so ill take that as a yes and ill pick you up at 7
HER: haha ok

by the way she has a boyfriend in another state. i was goin to get my best friend and his gf to go with us. so would you get them to go or just go the two of us (i told her i was getting people to go)? how else would you all go about this situation?

i'd say go for the iso, dont invite people around if you want this girl. it's not a public affair lol

1) she's got a boyfriend. She doesnt want 2 be seen flirting with other guys in public, if the news get to her boyfriend, the relationship can be put in jeapordy.

2) she's a family friend's sister, so you two geting 2gether or breaking up could put in jeapordy the relation bewteen the family and the friend.

for the same reasons you could hesitate, she could hesitate too, you gotta make her believe that she doesnt have to worry & nothing's gonna b aat risk!