hey guys,
i got a situation here that maybe some of you can help me with.
so i met this girl at a club last saturday. we ended up hooking up and giving her a ride to her place. i tried to get the one night stand but couldnt happen becau se she had her friend ( whom was with her a the club) staying over. so i didnt wanna seem needed and i let it go.
i can tell she is attracted to me. her text msgs tell me that she wants to hook up again.
we set up a date at a bar almost right next to her place, which by the way she described in a text msg,
this girl is a school teacher, 28 and and i can tell she wants it badly
im 21, still in college, and trying to get laid as much as i can.
so id like some tips of how to handle this one. any good tips of how to make her bounce from the bar to her place?

Its usually better to look for options on how to do that once you are with her in the bar.

Are you sure she wants the one-night stand as well? Did you kiss close her already?

If not, you have a lot of more game to run once your in the bar. And I would advise you to focus on that.

If you did have a kiss close already and she gave you clear sexual IOI's on the fact that she sees "it" happening, then just enjoy yourself in the bar. Keep it sensual on the kino and give some special attention to all those secondary erogenic zones... and she will probably inviting you after herself after a couple of drinks.

Good hunting

Bucc.

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Whether you have kiss closed or not, you want to do it again, and quite early next time you see her, bring the comfort levels up.

Use some kino, be playful and confident, an older woman will love this! Use it to your advantage. As Buccaneer stated, basically think deeper when your with her, ways to get around the situation, because you can think deep, but things may change when your in the situation.

She is definitely interested, hook up with her where she suggested, maybe she is doing it for the convenience so you can go back to her place, who knows huh? Go, and play your cards right!

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OK guys so here im with kinda of sweet and sour feeling of tonights date.
if u look at the first msg, ull see that i met this girl who is 7 years older than me in a bar. the point is that tonight we went out everything was good i got to the place we talked for almost two hours, i was always making sure of building temperture. i did kino, and it worked. i was relaxed, and she started telling me how cute and sexy i was. how much she wanted to kiss me and and she even said how much she wanted it! i was always calmed and responsive with more cocky and all that good stuff. i trew some good lines but i was also trying to come up with my own shit. well, i gave her a ride home we waited until the car warmed up and we made out for like 20 min. touch here and there. she was all the way in to it. so i thought it was a done deal, i took her to her place, we parked and we made out even more, and she kept making noises like wanting it. and i asked her, if i could go in for a min. she said no.! so im like wtf.!
also i have in mind that she had to work the next day and be up pretty early. she also begged me to go out with her tomorrow too. so at the end, nothing happened. i pushed the temperature up, beers here and there, good times, she into me, but no final ending.

can u guys explain what i did wrong. and what i should do different tomorrow.
tomorrow it a dance place.im a pro in that so no problem but how can i make sure its going to end where i want it to end?
any tips, tactics?

peace.

Come on man, IOI's all over the place here:

She said your cute, sexy and she wants to kiss you. I would have went straight in, showed some bottle and that your capable of taking the lead.

The mistake IMO, was asking if you could come in, no no no, don't do that, if you build enough comfort, she'd mention it.

She likes you, so keep going the way you are, keep using kino on her, mid-way into the night, maybe touch her in some more sensitive area's, behind the neck or the thigh's, send goosebumps up her!

Just do what your doing, if not tonight, then tomorrow, you will fuck her!

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Dont ask her to go in her place...find a bar/club near yours, make it the logistical best option available and lead her in to your place after a good makeout sesh and you hitting those sensitive areas, chel has some damn good advice with hittin the kino in those areas....take the lead on it though, dont ask, just do and if you get LMR then overcome....

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