| The mighty Friend-Zone, every man knows of this Dangerous battle field, of which there is no-way out..... Or is there?
Do you know why most men end up being there targets best-friend? No?
Well I'll tell you then, there are two ways this can happen:
1. When First meeting the woman you like, there is no attraction, so you feel the need to constantly talk to her thinking that you are building attraction (but in most cases youre not, your just making it worse unfortunately ).So you are not qualifying your self as a sexual being to her, therefore spending the rest of you're time in the friend-zone.
2. She feels that you are a sexual being, so you start building a comfort with her, But you build too much comfort and then she stops seeing you as a sexual being and more of a best-friend ( You can usually tell e.g. she will talk about other boys with you ).
How to deal with this:
For the first Dilema the best option would be to build attraction before speaking to her (this can be done with the player personality) show that you like to speak to everyone, but most importantly every one likes to speak to you, ( You do this because Women are attracted to men with high social value e.g. The Alpha Male).
This then leads you on to the building comfort stage, and maintaining the "sexual being" attribute. But how is this done ?
To show that you are still a sexual being you have to be able to Kino (Touch) it helps if you kino early on in the interaction e.g. a high five because it builds an instant connection (even if the high five is for no reason, its playful), and then when comfort stage comes along it is easier to put your arm around her for instance and then later go on to kiss her.
Simple actions can make you dodge the Friend-Zone, Amazing right.
Now, how is it possible to get out of the Friend-Zone once in ?
This is hard i won't lie, But... you can do it.
You first need to slowly back away from her, and not interact with her that often. (It may be hard but it is worth the end result). Then you start again but this time showing you have changed e.g "the player personality", this shows you have changed and will allow for you to touch her, with a way that she is comfortable with . ( If you don't do that she can feel discomfort and in some cases tell you about this discomfort, if you started to immediately escalate your touches).
Good look using this information (remember act confident even if your not, acting confident is as attractive as being confident)
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