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a) they dont want me to leave bc im a good worker, and i can exploit that
You may think that, but they can easily think you are using sex as a barging chip to stay there. Now unless you are a key person of this company they are very well can replace you like that. I am not saying you can't, but more pointing out a very likely possibility here.
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b) I meet lots of cute girls at this job. Which is where most of my game comes from.
Not sure what this has to do with anything.
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Now for the advice, obviously building TONS of rapport should be priority number one, which is easy cuz she is very open to casual convo. Getting close to her brother is also important. However thats a given, as getting close to her brother is necessary for another of my objectives. I figure the best way to handle this would be like trying to get with a married woman who isnt polygamous (which I also havent done, but its an interesting way to frame things), I guess think what would Bond do. I also have to demonstrate value beyond my personality. Demonstrate independence, especially from the business, to therefore also demonstrate a "willingness to walk away," i figure talking about my goals is the best way to do this.
A balance here is very very very important here. Because just because you don't care about this job, that in no way means what you do here can backfire on you later on in life it being personal or in your upcoming business adventure. So while it is easy to say tread carefully, if you do it too carefully you not close the girl, hence the reason why the balance is so important here. Saying that, I will not go the Bond route here. Expressing your business goals will help you, but not expressing your willingness to want to walk away. If you do that depending on what you do you may be replace in an instant.
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Now as to why I am doing this. Well when i first realized who she was, i was attracted to the idea. The challenge of this game called me. I wanna see if I can do it. My pride I guess. And now, t seems she will be spending more time in our branch. So the opportunity to game her is definitely there.
Why do you feel to explain why? If you have no moral/ethical issues with this then why explain your self?
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Anyways, advice is definitely appreciated, I wanna know what you guys think of this, and some protips from those of you who have tried something similar.
I never hit on my boss or their family members. Tho I have hit on some of the more powerful women at my work tho as well girls that know my higher ups.