As I notice SBPs (stupid boring profiles with only 1–3 lines of written text and only one single photo up, but sometimes also ones with several photos up, that isn't the subject of this message) are a consistent problem on PoF, can anyone please suggest a scripted message (and also a witty subject line as well) to send to SBP women who only have one single photo up on their profile, to inform them if they're aware that single photo female profiles are usually synonymous with a fake profile and it'd therefore help a hell of a lot, if they have any more photos to offer to disprove that, without coming across as demanding.

Should a guy not get a response back, then that'd tell him all he needs to know.
This is tricky, because while with some SBP single photo only female profiles, you can sometimes ascertain it's a fake, there's others who actually have a decent amount of text on their profile (as in more than 10 lines), so you can ascertain it's probably a real lady, but at the same time, that 'lady' (if it turns out it's a fake profile) could've just lifted all the written text from a profile of a lady in another English speaking country.

To guys who say 'dude don't over analyse things so much and don't worry if a SBP lady only has one single photo up. Just message her anyway and assume she's for real, till you find out later', that's not good enough. I'd rather address head on, but politely, so I'd know I'm not wasting my time.

Are you a paying member on PoF?

I'm not a big fan of free dating sites. You typically find fake profiles, uncompleted profiles, idiots and women looking for attention on those sites.

Personally, I would spend the money and become a member on a dating site that requires a fee to fill out a profile. At least this way, you know that the profiles are legitimate and the person on the other end is serious about meeting someone and not a perv pic collector.

My personal recommendation, if you do not want to waste your time, don't bother responding to SBP profiles. If the person can't take the time to fill out a simple profile, how serious do you think they are about meeting someone?

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I neg them on having a lame profile. I # closed this one, she ended up being kind of boring tho. Read from the bottom up...

From: E30FTW (View Profile)
Ahhh, how the tables have turned

I dont blame you for not putting much effort into your profile anyways. I'm pretty sure the majority of guys on this site are just looking to get some action and dont care to read a profile.



From: her (View Profile)
My other hand may or may not be holding up a camera to take the picture....now I feel like a hypocrite...
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From: E30FTW (View Profile)
If I didnt see a cellphone in your hand, I would accuse you of taking pictures of yourself as well.

You have a really nice smile



From: her
That's a good point actually...



From: E30FTW (View Profile)
If my pictures are so lame, why dont you show me yours? [she didnt have a picture up] My friends dont generally carry cameras around with them, guys dont have the luxury of carrying around a bag full of supplies



From: her
I never have, they just seem a bit lame. Why not post pictures with friends or in a real life setting?



From: E30FTW (View Profile)
Is there a problem with mirror pictures. Dont tell me you have never done it before



From:her
It seems like you enjoy taking pictures of yourself in the mirror.



From: E30FTW (View Profile)
It doesnt seem as though you put a whole lot of effort into this profile.

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nice answer on why not post pictures

If you mean join pay based sites like Match, I'd never join it, as there's fake female profiles on there as well. My main issue with Match and other pay based sites, if when a guy has to pay money to be able TO send out messages, while the women on the site can get by paying nothing, as long as guys message them first, it creates an annoying imbalance. If both genders were charged the same prices to use Match, it'd help weed out all the female fakes and time wasters.

I have no idea how many women on Match pay money to be able to send out messages, but my guess is, it'd be extremely small.