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PostPosted: Mon Jan 10, 2011 5:44 am 
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all of us are good friends, theyre taken, im single.
so i told them
"ha. im not sure if my favorite girls are really cool or really weird".. for wanting to go to a gay club.
their bargain was
"evenn if we danced with you all night?"
my reply,
"tempting but nah."

ive been to clubs but never to a gay club.
should i text them back saying
"hmmm. do ___ and ill go. :)"
on top of that, dont know how i would go about gaming them if i did go.
any thoughts?
what would you pua's do or say


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Man, just go. Whether or not you pickup, you'll be able to have fun dancing with girls all night and it'll push your boundaries; I've never been to a gay club and the idea intimidates and scares me a little, but that's all the more reason to go, cos it pushes you outside your comfort zones. And that's how we evolve : )


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go for it mate!

i guarantee there will be single straight women in there and it will be a good laugh! My female friends have been talking about going to one as well, and i think it will be an interesting experience!

Also if any guys try to chat you up or whatever, you can shit test them and have fun with it!


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Your friends are bisexual or bi-curious. Personally, I would take this opportunity to surround myself with open-minded women and have a great time. It will increase your value to be seen with a group of bi-sexual women in a gay club, ESPECIALLY if you are the center of attention.
You can cut the sexual energy in a gay club with a knife. Take full advantage my friend.

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Gay bars can be great, Women tend not to have the "Bitch Shield" up as much due to fact most guys in there are Gay, plus I've seen some smoking hot HB9's in Gay Bars in Manchester who are straight, so you never know, take a chance

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For some reason women are extremely attracted to gay bars/clubs. My ex included, she dragged me to one of the nicest ones in town one night to meet some friends, and I admit I was uncomfortable, because I've bit hit on a few too many times by guys.

It wasn't too awful, wasn't a great scene either. I didn't see many hot girls, but I did see one or two. If you can get past the guy dancing on the bar with his undersized speedo and cockring squeezing all the blood into his itty bitty penis.

They might just be testing your ability to be alpha male, and even in a gay bar, being uncomfortable could show as a weakness?

Edit: And I agree with Sinful, chances are, the girls are bi-sexual or bi-curious.


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definitely hold your frame and do not go. Only reason may be if these chicks were single so you could try game them, but thats not the case.


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Your friends are bisexual or bi-curious. Personally, I would take this opportunity to surround myself with open-minded women and have a great time. It will increase your value to be seen with a group of bi-sexual women in a gay club, ESPECIALLY if you are the center of attention.
You can cut the sexual energy in a gay club with a knife. Take full advantage my friend.
a value of being in gay club? cutting GAY sexual energy? what the heck dude, who enjoys gay sexual energy? How is this a plus if you are straight? There is no point of going to such places unless have that image of feminine guy


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They might just be testing your ability to be alpha male, and even in a gay bar, being uncomfortable could show as a weakness?
Any alpha male would be and should be at least a little bit uncomfortable in such a place. Being comfortable there may be weaknes, not being uncomfortable


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In my experience of 2 gay clubs (here in the UK at least) which i've been to a couple of times with friends, there are as many straight women as gay men/women and the SPAM is a lot more relaxed than normal clubs. It's definitely worth it, especially if you're going out with a bunch of girls. Social proof right there and being a straight guy in a gay club shows you're comfortable enough with your sexuality that it doesn't bother you.

Worst thing that can possibly happen is you'll get hit on by a guy and, well, if you're so insecure you can't handle that enough to say you're not gay then you have bigger problems.


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Man, just go. Whether or not you pickup, you'll be able to have fun dancing with girls all night and it'll push your boundaries; I've never been to a gay club and the idea intimidates and scares me a little, but that's all the more reason to go, cos it pushes you outside your comfort zones. And that's how we evolve : )
absolutely, plus use it the adventure as an advantage. I mean you start telling a girl you got dragged to a gay club when she knows your completely straight, shell want to know what happened and more then likely be interesting. Could also be used as an interesting add to the Photo Technique.


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ah, what the hell guys, I'm doing it!
It's more of me feeling uncomfortable with going, but you guys are right. Just might as well go and have fun.
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that's all the more reason to go, cos it pushes you outside your comfort zones
great response Skylark.
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I would take this opportunity to surround myself with open-minded women and have a great time
This is also a great response. Not even thinking about it, 6 chicks with me gives me lot of social proof, for the chicks there, but also as well as the dudes... but if im grinding on those 6 girls for the night maybe the guys there will get the picture: im straight.
If not, I can shit test/ignore.
Going friday. I'll reply later with how it all went.
Thanks to all![/quote]


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Gay bars can be great, Women tend not to have the "Bitch Shield" up as much due to fact most guys in there are Gay, plus I've seen some smoking hot HB9's in Gay Bars in Manchester who are straight, so you never know, take a chance


I agree, gay bars can be good for picking up women, just dont ask the question wether the girl you are talking to is a lesbian or not that would give the impression you are only out to pick up.

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I'd say they are testing your ability to be the AMOG....if you're interested in any of these women that want you to go, I would defiantly go...even if your not I would still go, I've only been to a couple of gay bars and seen plenty of HB9's....if you're worried about guys hitting on you, don't, you will be surrounded with your friends grinding on you all night(which will only help you out in sarging anyways)


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They're not testing anything.

They just want to go.

Girls like gay clubs because they can have a fun time dancing with their friends and not have to deal with guys hitting on them the whole time.

Push yourself out of your comfort zone for once, do something a bit different - at the very worst it'll be a random story to tell, at best there'll be a few hot single straight girls there who you can hit on.

DON'T BE A PUSSY
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