Ok, this post is for all the guys coming into this forum just getting started or struggling with stuff, if you don't understand anything I'm saying, please leave a reply or send me a PM, I'll be glad to help. So let's start....


1. Go and get yourslef a copy of "The Game" by Neil Strauss, this is required reading as it will help you and also teach you some of the terms used around here like AFC, HB, NLP etc. Also, try and get ahold of "The Mystery Method" or "The Venusian Arts Handbook" by Mystery, it's a good start for anyone, and don't take it as read, some of the stuff in there may not apply to you or you may not be confident enough to try(Like peacock theory, which requires some degree of confidence tbh).

2. Teach yourself some openers, only around 5 or 6, theres a great selection in the books I've mentioned, but also look here

collection-of-pua-openers-and-add-yours-vt8124.html

for some that we on this forum (myself included) have created, feel free to use them and rehearse them to a mirror, know them word for word and practice on your delivery, they all should be loud(but not shouting) and clear. Wattch some infield videos on youtube for the general volume you should be aiming for.

3. Go and get some clothes. You need to not only look good, but feel good, ask the girls in the stores for ideas of what looks good on you, make sure it fits nice, not too tight, not too baggy. One thing to consider, don't go out and get a load of clothes that you so a load of other people are wearing, yes follow and adhere to stuff thats in fashion, but make it suit you. Why fit in, when you can stand out?

4. Hairstyle. Go out and spend some money on a decent hairstyle, ask around if theres a particular hairstyle you want, ask people what they think and if it would suit you. Go to a proper hair salon and ask them to cut it in this particular way, example, if I wanted Brad Pitt's hairstyle from Fight Club, I'd ask a proper stylist to cut it and then ask how to get it into that look in a morning and physically show me how to do it, and look after it, get it cut regularly unless your growing it out for a reason.

How does it feel so far? Great huh? Good, now we're getting you more confident within yourself, you've got some cool clothes, a great new hairstyle, some openers and alot of infomation about PUA. Great, bet you picked up some routines, cool, learn them, they can help you in-field, which takes us to.

5. Practice your openers! Do this anywhere you like, go out to bars, coffee shops, shops, in the street, clubs, anywhere, doesn't matter at this point. Keep going as often as you can, this will get rid of that Approach Anxiety you have.

Contnues on next post

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6. Body Language. Now we're getting somewhere. Body Language is incredibly important, so we need to improve that. So here are some quick tips, by the way if you've read the books I told you, you will have some idea of good body language, I'm gonna add to that.

Smile - this is important, just by smiling you're doing 50% better than the AFC's out there. Smile on approach, whilst talking and waling around, just make eye contact with random people around and smile at them, it's infectious.

Stand up straight with your feet in line with your shoulders. Easy way to stand up straight is to imagine a puppet string on your temple and it's pulling you up, now your standing straight .

7. Now you've got your openers down, let's move into the next stage, rapport, rapport is easier when you have things in commen, travel for example, all it is is finding things in commen and being positive with their answers, so for example, travel

Girl says "Oh, I went to Ibiza last year, i loved it"

You "Oh, Yeah? I went last year aswell, I loved it, the place was buzzing and people were just partying everywhere day and night, the place is beautiful and hot, I remember walking down the main strip towards EL Paradis and me, being a lil bit drunk decided to try some free running, which I used to be into, and jumped onto the side of this fountain, completly missed it and fell straight into it, all my friends could do nothing but laugh "

Girl "Oh My God! That's so funny, we went to El Paradis aswell, during it's pool party which the place is covered in water like a pool, was sooo cool, only time I've ever been drunk wearing nothing but a Bikini and swimming, which I love anyway,"

and go on from there, travel is the best in my opinion for rapport, followed by hobbies, try to avoid work related question and DON'T INTERVIEW them, so many guys do this, it's like they interrogate the guys for information, it puts them off big style.

8. The more you practice rapport building the better, the better you get the more you can move into what I can the "Connection" part, also known as Attraction and Comfort. Now, I use a method called the "Incredible Connection" routine to do this, I learnt it from one of Mystery's books and I have had great success with it. Now it's not for everyone but there are ways to do this. The best way is to write a list of what 5 qualities you want from a girlfriend and use your newly aquirred skills in the rapport building stage to find these out. So, I'll use my personal list for example

1. Great Eyes - Eyes are the window to the soul, I love staring into a beautiful pair, especailly if they're a weid colour. I should add also that this is a great chance to have a "Staring contest" and build confort and attaction with ease.

2. Humor - I consider myself to be a "Entertainer" whereas if people are having fun with me, I'm happy, so I need to have a girl like that to bounce off, easily found out by me making a few jokes and people watching works great for this.

3. Great World Knowledge - Not so important, but I like girls that have travelled or love the world around them, gives me so much chance to connect and loads to talk about trading stories etc.

4. Similer interest - Again, not as important but a girl having similer interests (Sports, Movies, Music and Video Games) is fantastic, eample, my ex-girlfriend was a Everton fan and I'm a Liverpool fan, it leads to some steamy situations on Derby days and she was a big football(Soccer Sad) fan aswell, so we connected so well.

5. Brunette - Personal preference to be honest Smile but I don't mind any hair colour

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To Succeed You Have to Stop being Ordinary and Start being Legend...Wait For It....Dary!!!

If you do what you always did, you will get what you always got.

Live for the Moment, Never see a Chance you didn't take!

Ok, let's review what you have so far:

Openers
New Clothes
Fantastic Hairstyle
Body Language
No Approach Anxiety
Great Tonality(Voice)
Abilty to talk and build rapport
Able to build attraction and find the girl for you.

So time for some closes.

There are a few types of closes

Facebook Close - Added as a friend to facebook
Number Close - Get a Phone Number
Kiss Close - A Kiss/make out session
Full/Fuck Close - Self explanitary really haha

Now, theres a few ways to do all of these and generally if you get to F-close, you will have done the rest anyway. Think of them as levels or checkpoints of you will. Now I'm not gonna go into all the ways you can do these as I'd be here forever, but I will give a example of how I do these and hopefully it will help you understand the mentality.

So, facebook close- Easy, whilst talking, mention something you've seen on FB, interupt yourself and ask if she's on and that you've got to add her. I've got 99% like this, hell the 1% added and then deleted me anyway so I think that counts btw, I don't do this anymore because I like to keep my FB profile between me and close friends or people I talk to often.

Number Close - Simple "It's been great talking to you, lets see how creative you are, I want you to put 11 numbers down here (Give her my iPhone) can be any you want" 100% for me on that, thats a simple one, I've got better ones but I like thisone and for new guys it's a great start.

What I do now is whilst talking to her, I'll mention about going somewhere and then ask if she wants to come along so "I'm gonna go check out this new bar next week, you should totally come along, it'd be so fun, tell you what, out your number in here (Hand over iPhone) and I'll call you about it later in the week."

Now, it's important not to end it there, mention it in passing like it's natural and don't rush off thinking you've won the "Game" that will lead to flakes, I know this, it's happened to me a lot when I was starting, you will always get flakes, but building rapport improves your chances a hell of alot.

Kiss Close - When you've built enough attraction and confort along with a Connection it's time for a Kiss, don't get nervous, take it from me, theres no right way to kiss per se, and most girls consider themselves to be bad kissers anyway, so relax, remember "It's no big deal, I don't care"

This is where I love to get creative, so drop me a PM or a reply if you want something a bit more personal, I have so many methods to do this .

The one I use alot is Mystery's Kiss Method, now it looks a lil ballsy but it's almost perfect, it had answers for everything so it's pretty much rejection-proof, so here goes:

Ask her:

"Do you want to kiss me?"

Now, depending on her answers:

"I don't know/maybe" You say "Lets find out, come here"

"Not Here" You Say "I understand"

"No" You say "I didn't say you could, you look like you have something on your mind"

"Yes" do you need me to tell you what to do?

See? Fool-proof now, more advice I'll give is to learn "Triangler Gazing" which basically is whilst looking a girl in the eyes is to move your eyes in a triangle montion slowly between her eyes and mouth, this will draw her in and when your ready, go for it.

Another one I like is something I learnt from Jeffy Allen (Jlaix RSD) is if a girl says something like "Are you gonna buy me a drink?" Reply with "I don't buy girls drinks, but let's make a bet, if you're a good kisser, I will buy you one " now she is never gonna win that bet btw, keep her keen .



F-closes are something I'm not going to go into detail here as it requires alot of explaining and to be honest the methods for them are on here, search around, if theres a specific problem you want addressing, drop me a PM and I'll try and help.



Hope you enjoyed all this info. and I really hope it helps get you started, last piece of advice "If you do what you always did, you will get what you always got."


So get out there, suit up, be awesome! Win this "Game" and best of luck to you all!!!

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To Succeed You Have to Stop being Ordinary and Start being Legend...Wait For It....Dary!!!

If you do what you always did, you will get what you always got.

Live for the Moment, Never see a Chance you didn't take!

i'm a newbie please give me a mystery opener i can memorize ty

R.G.

Feeling fruity are we.
I sent you a private message.

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Its getting Hot out there.

Its all to easy.

I want to be a tree!

Point taken but are you sure they will be genuine and what if their recommendations don't appeal to you? Confusion!

That's one nice topic.

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What I like in life is nothing more but living it.

Who gives a shit if they're "genuine" or not. If you don't like they're recommendations, banter them about how shit their selection is. The point is to interact with people and have fun!

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Should of pointed that out really, but yeah, you've hit it on the head there, thanks for the reply

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To Succeed You Have to Stop being Ordinary and Start being Legend...Wait For It....Dary!!!

If you do what you always did, you will get what you always got.

Live for the Moment, Never see a Chance you didn't take!