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PostPosted: Sat Jan 08, 2011 1:37 am 
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So we've been talking and roleplaying boss and slave. I txted her randomly earlier and said:
Me: "Hey I got some work for you"
HB: "what is it boss?"
Me: "Give me a massage ;)"
HB: "Lol that I can do"
Me: "Lol right now?"
HB: " I cant, I'm at a bar"

Didnt text her back, 5 min later she txted me again:
HB: "Are you really gonna come over just for that?" --- IDK if this is her shit test
Me: "Lol yes, I twisted my back playing tennis earlier"
HB: "Srry boss I cant help"

I didn't text her back after this.
Btw, we have day 2 tomorrow :)


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 08, 2011 3:17 am 
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In my opoinion, u said "yes" when she asked if u r coming over just for that. I would say "no, I'm the boss, you're coming to give me a massage". Be careful when it comes to shit testing, always have the mentality of "she is the one chasing me, not the other way round". Look at the example I just gave! Shit tests can put u right down into the Friend Zone if not handled well.

At least u have day 2 coming, watch out for shit tests, good luck

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PostPosted: Sat Jan 08, 2011 5:00 am 
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Uhm it didn't go well, she was acting kinda strange at her place, and there are bunch of ppl there, she wouldn't wanna close the door, cuz she's afraid ppl will judge her since she has just met me. Acted quite distant, I excused myself after like an hour or so cuz ppl keep cockblocking even thou i disarmed them already. She just said thank for coming by, and I said "K good night" then took off.
Well cant blame the girl, the only one I can blame is myself not building enough attraction. Tried 60s method, but she just got more awkward. Didn't get to kino much at all.
This is by far the most AFC night of my life :(
I think I should call off day 2, freeze her out and regame. Any suggestion?


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 08, 2011 2:18 pm 
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It either goes well or it doesn't, the important thing is to analyse this alone and see what went wrong and gain experience from that, you already said you havent built enough attraction. I'm guessing there is not enough comfort and trust built, which is why she probably left the door open and people come in. As for the people coming in, why not befriend them? I would actually take advantage of the situation as I have done before. Here's what I would do:

I understand that the girl doesn't want to be alone with me, and she leaves the door open, people come in whenever. Its not working well, so I change my game a little take it back to the early stages (A2, A3 etc). HOW?? I welcome their presence and talk to them if possible ignoring her a little (this will make me slightly unpredictable and break down the tension a little, also you are trying to win her friends over so that you don't have to avoid them or worry about them every time)....whilst talking to them, make sure she's listening because you will be DHVing yourself to her friends and she will be listening (ever thought of that? this will build her attraction for you and comfort at the same time). Try to win her friends over, soon they will be likely to help you naturally without you even knowing it! Give her the impression you like her friends if you get the impression they like you first, if there are girls in the group SHE WILL GET JEALOUS. The game requires planning and patience. What do you think?

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PostPosted: Sat Jan 08, 2011 3:15 pm 
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Lava has great advice taohackne, I would listen to him.

I love role playing, it is a great way to turn up the sexual tension. I use it all the time. Role playing allows women to play into their fantasies.

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PostPosted: Sat Jan 08, 2011 3:17 pm 
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That was what I did Lava, I disarmed her friends by befriending with them, I was talking to those guys for a while. But I do think part of the problem lies somewhere with her, because she's living at her friend house, and there are his family living together also. I was being quite friendly even with the family. Idk she might be uncomfortable and afraid they will judge her.
I texted her last night saying im canceling day 2 at her place, and we should do something else because she's uncomfortable there, but she didn't reply.
Oh well I did NOT build enough attraction and gave her a bit of too much attention.
It frustrated me last night but it's all part of the improving process, so if she's still interested she will contact me eventually.
In the mean time, onto the next one :)


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 08, 2011 3:22 pm 
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Me: "Hey I got some work for you"
HB: "what is it boss?"
Me: "Give me a massage Wink"
HB: "Lol that I can do"
Me: "Lol right now?"
HB: " I cant, I'm at a bar"


Me: "Hey I got some work for you"
HB: "what is it boss?"
Me: "Give me a massage"
HB: "Lol that I can do"
Me: "I'll let you know when I'm ready"

The 'wink' in your post brought your high status level down a couple of notches #1, #2 it does not fit with the dominant boss role.
When you asked her 'right now?', the attraction went out the window. Her response to that question proves that.

Don't let this side track you, role playing is GREAT!

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PostPosted: Sat Jan 08, 2011 3:25 pm 
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Well, I like your mentality "on to the next one", never focus on just one otherwise you will waste opportunities u could of had with others, u seem to know where it didnt work out so you will never forget this lesson, good learner. good luck

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PostPosted: Sat Jan 08, 2011 3:30 pm 
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Thank for pointing that out SiNfUl, it's habit to use wink in txt. Lol my favorite roleplays are married couple and boss/slave. So easy to go sexual in thosee :)
I did the bank robber accomplice also, it was quite fun but hard to lead that to sexual tensionn.


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Thank for pointing that out SiNfUl, it's habit to use wink in txt. Lol my favorite roleplays are married couple and boss/slave. So easy to go sexual in thosee :)
I did the bank robber accomplice also, it was quite fun but hard to lead that to sexual tensionn.
I would stay away from 'winks' and 'lol' whenever possible. They don't coincide with a high status male, in my opinion.

Girls always play along with the Daddy role. I recently start chatting up a woman on line for fun. By day 2 I had her calling me 'Daddy' and sending me R rated pictures. It's amazing how women fall into the submissive role naturally, AND get turned on by doing so.

Rape fantasies can be quite intense as well.

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