I've hit a point in my life where I've had enough of the Niagara effect of life and want to take full control of my life.

I have finally picked my major and will take classes for that major next semester.

I've always wanted to have that awesome connection with woman and be in control all the time.

My problem is that I can't seem to find any girls to hang out with ever.

I've been a little anti social because I've been focusing on myself and trying to get some personal things ironed out. It's not like I'm even looking for a girlfriend, though i wouldn't mind if a girl came along and forced my hand, I'm just looking for fun and to live it up while I have the time.

I know women are everywhere but what place would give me the advantage to meet girls who want to party around my age (20)?

I'm done wondering what people think about me, or if I seem weird doing anything.
I just want to get laid, plain and simple.

All I want it to have a couple girls on the side to have that wild night, and then go back and focus on my studies.

Where do I even start?
Any help is widely appreciated.

It sounds like youre in the right track. So youre going to univeristy, are you living on campus? Seems like there was an abundance of girls going out to party when I was in school. Do you have any friends that you can go out with? Try reading little pandas guide to college game.

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~Carmo~

It sounds like you want to get laid without having to try very hard. I can't say I blame you...what guy in his right mind wouldn't want that?

As I see it, you have 2 options...
1: Find yourself and escort that you can pay for.....her, 'time' and be done with it. 2: Do a search on this site for material that will teach you how to game women properly. David DeAngelo's material is golden in my opinion. It will definitely have you looking at women differently. Please be aware that this choice WILL take some time, it will not happen over night. You may have to actually put forth some EFFORT.

Note: I was kidding about option #1

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

I'm currently going to a community college and living at home. To be honest I really can only one friend I can go out but I know him through a friend I work with I've been having a hard time to find a guy who knows alot of women to hang out with. Plus I dont want to come off that I'm hanging out with him just to get with the girls he knows.

To be honest, I feel like confident in my ability to flirt and talk to women, I just always have a problem finding girls to hang out with. I'm always open minded and know there is always more to learn but it's frustrating not being able to get laid or have a couple girls on call

Understandable my friend. The best thing you can do is make the commitment to transform yourself into the bad boy player women dream about. As I mentioned before, David D. has top notch material. I highly recommend you purchase his series, it is well worth the investment.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

I've been subscribed to his newsletter for the last year and I've read his double your dating and sexual communication. All of it is great material and I found it very useful but I've reached the point to where I'm overloading my mind with information. I want it to keep it simple

I've always been the person who always knows what to do but struggles to do it.

I need to take action but that brings me back to my first question
Where do I start?haha

I'm trying not to make this a big distraction for myself but I don't want to wake up a year from now and still be where I'm at right now with women