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PostPosted: Wed Jan 05, 2011 3:54 am 
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heey guise !

I don't really have a social life

where to get started?

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 05, 2011 4:47 am 
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School and work is where most people take care of that. But if you want more, meetup.com can find you like minded people and get you out of the house 7 days a week.

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 05, 2011 6:08 am 
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If you're in high school or college, join clubs/organizations. If you're out of school, make friends with your co-workers or take a class. Honestly all it takes to make friends with someone is a good conversation, finding shit in common, and not being socially awkward. I used to have a lot of trouble making friends cause I could never find any ways to deal with the inevitable awkward silences that arise when strangers talk to each other for the first time. I was also quite socially awkward, especially back in high school.

I still don't have many close friends, although I do have quite a number of casual friends. It's my 2nd day back at school and none of my friends are asking me what I'm doing this weekend, whether I want to party, etc. A poker game was the most exciting shit I've done since school started. Didn't even win. =p

You're not the only one who feels alone man. Don't worry about it too much. Just go meet people, don't be socially awkward, chill with them, and friendships will develop naturally.


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 05, 2011 9:19 pm 
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No offence dude but this is the type of threads that make many PUAs go bananas.
This is so basic it makes me wonder how old you are and what you actually hope to achieve by posting this.
This is about pickups and advanced stuff, not " hey I'm.. how do I have sex? whatever"

If you just google your question you find 1000x more info than you'll find here


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 06, 2011 2:47 am 
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It was a relevant question about increasing his value and social circle, what's the problem? This message board covers a lot more than peacocking and screwing, you should look around. There's even a fitness section.

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 07, 2011 8:22 am 
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It was a relevant question about increasing his value and social circle, what's the problem? This message board covers a lot more than peacocking and screwing, you should look around. There's even a fitness section.
-hey-ppl-cn-you-plz-halp-me-get-sex--vt82427.html

read this and then you'll get the point


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 07, 2011 2:49 pm 
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Who cares, it's a free message board; what kind of talent do you expect, seriously? Of course it's flooded with teenagers and virgins, it has been since I joined 2 years ago. These guys still want help and if their questions are easy, why not toss them a bone? Do you really expect the mods to evaluate every post for pick up quality and toss out the newbies? The kid's more or less in the right place, why not let him stay. If you want guys that are serious and maybe have talent, the Lounge is probably where they are, no?

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 07, 2011 3:48 pm 
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Who cares, it's a free message board; what kind of talent do you expect, seriously? Of course it's flooded with teenagers and virgins, it has been since I joined 2 years ago. These guys still want help and if their questions are easy, why not toss them a bone? Do you really expect the mods to evaluate every post for pick up quality and toss out the newbies? The kid's more or less in the right place, why not let him stay. If you want guys that are serious and maybe have talent, the Lounge is probably where they are, no?
The point is very clear. It doesn't irritate you but it does irritate other forum members. Some make an effort to read long posts and if you keep reading these " how to .. " posts it reduces the quality of the forum. It is more of a wikihow thread.

OP knows what he should do but he uses the forum to have some friendly chatting going on. I'm not saying that's a bad thing, and he can make friends over here. But it messes up the forum.

It is a free message board indeed, but if I'm gonna make threads about how I feed my cat, and if I should buy a red dress or a green one for my GF, people will leave this forum because it's full of BS


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 08, 2011 2:02 am 
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I can see that, too. Shit would be a lot easier to find if there weren't 10 threads about the same thing. It would be nice if newbies were actually prevented from starting their own threads for awhile to encourage them to search around first. And it does get annoying that my skills are way above average around here when I really don't have that much game or a LOT of experience. But having threads that are 20 pages long also sucks. Meh, it's better than nothing; I rarely come here for tips or advice anyway.

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