To those of you who are in or went to college, how do would game a girl in your class when she's ALWAYS sitting next to and leaving with that mother bitch of a cock blocking friend. Seriously it's bad enough that hot girls have boyfriends. They have to have FRIENDS too? FUCK. =p

If you guys want details, I kind of know her friend and I've been on a study date with this girl once. Kinoed her a little bit, not nearly enough. Then when she texted me the day of our final exam and dropped massive hints about wanting to study with me I probably pissed her off by not studying with her. I knew I was gonna be too busy studying her instead of studying for the exam.

Im new here but I guess you should get a wingman to distract the obstacle would probably be your best bet!

i guess u did the right thing u can fool around with a lot of girl but exams are important (though i don't give a fuck abt exams) what you could do is ask a opinion opener to her bitchy friend get even get her involved in it make sure her friend is cool with you.so you can casually interact with her on a regular basis

This, or befriend the obstacle.

I picked up a girl at a club once, she was there with her (male) cousin. At first he was pretty hostile towards me, asking me questions about my background, testing me with a few borderline insults, that sort of thing. By the end of the night him and I were so tight that he actually (admittedly, drunkenly) started trying to convince his cousin to come home with me. When the cab we were sharing pulled up to the place I was staying at, he tried to push her out of the cab along with me

A befriended obstacle can make one hell of a wing.

Oh I forgot to mention. There's another dude with them. Seems to be dating the target's friend. Guess my target gets third wheeled a lot maybe I can take advantage of that. This is kinda a weird situation cause I know the target already. Can't really neg her.

Also what are some general tactics to disarm obstacles? Befriending them is one, and DHV to the group is another great one. What else guys?

Apparently being new also means 'can't read'

firstly,
Dude, don't give advice till you got the hang of it. This dude is talking about a school situation. As far as I know it's pretty weird to bring a random dude to your classes and claim he's just there to be your 'wingman'.

And for OP, stop gaming in your class, it makes you look like a dick. Go out and find chicks there, I'm sure there is plenty to go around with.

secondly,
Anyone who agrees with this given advice should slap himself.
If your name is Mr. Metal and you try to game in your class it would be best if you give yourself a slap or two aswell.



learn to read.

haha i shook my head reading the response that the op got.

what you need to do is isolate her from her friends (aka obstacle) this does 2 things

1) gets you away from the cockblockers and

2) show you that she is comfortable to be around you alone and semi interested (basically you are not some friend creeper to her)

invite her to do something. something un-school related. If you keep using school as a way to get her to go out with you, you'll get the "LJBF" really quick. Avoid trying to invite the "group"

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Vaj, I agree with your first point - a wing is completely unnecessary. But I don't get what's wrong with gaming someone in my class. I know there's a lot of hotties outside my class, but my cold approach game just isn't good. I'm a lot better if the ice is broken.

And NonStop, my problem in this specific situation is my inability to isolate. If she was alone I'd just go up to her after class and be like "I'm hungry let's get something to eat". But I sit with my friends, she sits with hers. In fact everyone seems to sit in the same spot every class which doesn't help. I know I've been on a study date with this girl and shared some good conversation, but I feel like I'm already losing the battle by investing too much.

I think I killed off a lot if not all of the attraction I built by pushing her away. Now that I think about it I've always fucked up the push/pull theory. I would pull just the right amount, and then I'd push too hard by trying too hard to be mysterious, unavailable, blowing them off, etc. Huge, critical flaw in my game and I realize that now. If I didn't push this girl away, I'd probably be doing her right now. I ignored a girl that was attracted instead of taking it to the next level.

This girl just showed me my own stupidity. There's a difference between teasing a girl into wanting more and pushing away a girl when she's attracted. Amusing really how it took me this long to comprehend that.

its simple in that situation to isolate her. Since you already know her you can simply go up to her and go. "hey got a min?" and motion for her to come to you. If her friends gets up to go "no, just her" from there on you have isolated her. you already have rapport with her.

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If I was you I would just spend time with the obstacle and try and get her trust. As soon as you get her trust, she will let you spend time with the target in college.

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