Tonight went perfectly. I wasn’t pushy. She called me clearly wanting to fuck tonight. She said she wanted to hang out and was in her pjs. I passed every single shit test and there were a lot. It was a joke. I just kept a funny laid back I don’t give a fuck mindset and ran with it. I knew she wanted to fuck from the get go. I brought her over to my place and joked the entire time. 0 awkward moments. It was literally a near perfect seduction. That is being critical too. She came over, I asked if she wanted a beer because I was gonna grab one, she said no, I didn’t think anything of it and grabbed myself one then took her upstairs.

When we got upstairs I sat down next to her on the couch and she initiated some conversation. It was good because I didn’t really think of what I was gonna do once I got up there and I initially started opening my computer up. It was a good thing I had enough sense to forget about the laptop and lay back and talk to her. Which I did. I initially was a little close and it was kindof an awkard position. So I quickly leaned back and just chilled and talked to her with some good cocky funny joking humor. I misinterpreted everything and exaggerated. Basically textbook out of the Venusian Arts Humor section.

After about 10 minutes of this I started focusing on her mood and whether or not she wanted to kiss me. It was really easy to tell when she was thinking about fucking me. She would slow down her talking and just stare into my eyes really deeply. I of course did the same and just kept playing around in a joking manner. After a little over this I positioned myself so she was sitting in between my legs. 100% compliance. It was a little bit of an awkward position but she was so compliant that I just ignored it. She was giving me all systems go. After about 3 minutes of this I just leaned back again and waited until she was staring at me with the “I want to fuck you” eyes. I really wanted to do what Gambler was talking about earlier with the get really close thing but there didn’t seem like a good time to do it so I just pulled her on top of me. She was definitely ready.

We started some really passionate making out after that. I had timed it perfectly, she was wanting it really bad by the time I pulled her on me so she was making out with me really heavy without me having to do really anything. I started feeling her ass and playing with her tits on the outside of her shirt. It was turning her on. Then I started feeling her ass under her pants. We kept making out on my couch for about 15 minutes and I took her bra off and started working her nipples.

I started rubbing her and we kept changing random positions. It was definitely crammed because it was a couch and she made a comment about the couch being crammed when I told her to get in a certain position. So I took this as my signal to move to my bed. I grabbed both of her hands, stared her straight in the eyes, and walked her back to my bed. Then I pushed her back on to it with a playful smile on my face and turned off the lights.

Here is where I took her shirt off. Immediately after that she ripped mine off – also a great sign that she was 100% down for this and ready. We rolled around kissing more and I started working her nipples again. I paid careful attention to her breathing and the motions I was using with my tongue that made her hot. When she slowed down breathing and seemed like she got her fill of one motion, I backed off. I did this continuously though out the hookup. Right when I would sense her not being stimulated as much by one, I backed off and switched to another. Of course this was all from her breathing and just the vibe.

The thing that helped the most through all of this was WITHOUT A DOUBT Nashville Playboys post on the 3 things that make every PUA master successful. A player must be comfortable with himself, with interacting with women, and with being sexual with women. So when I was with her, I made sure 1 and 2 were in place, and when we got sexual, I made a conscious effort to think in terms of this not being a big deal, because it isn’t. Its just two animals naked feeling each other and having a good time.

Finally came the time where she went for my dick. She unbuckled my pants and started feeling me down there, so I did the same to her. I will surely do this in the future as well because it feels like your doing something together. There is a sense of connection by moving at the same pace like that. We just opened eachothers pants enough to feel inside, that is all.

After feeling eachother for a little I got on top of her and put my penis in her face. She complied by sucking it and pushing me over to suck my dick. I let her do this until I felt like I was mid way to cumming. I would have been fine with cumming from the blowjob but I felt like I wanted to pleasure her a little bit more and I really wanted to go for the gold and fuck her.

So I pushed her over and ripped her pants off. She stopped me midway and said she didn’t want them off. She “Doesn’t want to have sex”. I immediately smile and say “Haha im not.” That was my true intention too. I just wanted to finger her while she was playing with my dick and maybe 69 her. So I laid her on her back, licked my middle finger and started pushing on her clit. Rotating and stimulating that area. After I felt like she got as much as she could out of that I stuck it in. Same deal here, watching the same reactions.

Next two fingers – alternating between inside of her pussy and on top of her clit. Then I got the great signal. “Oh god your turning me on.” I respond “Haha is that a good thing?” AKA “So sex now?” “Yeah that’s a good thing.” Kudos to me! So I keep going a little bit longer and she throws me off of her and mounts me. It’s a little cold in my room so I ask her if she wants to get under the covers. We do. She then gets on top of me and sticks my dick in her. As she does this I say “Hold up we need a rubber.” She says it doesn’t matter. I still get the rubber. She appretiates the male logic helping her sexually invaded brain. We start having sex and I feel myself getting closer to cumming. I know the rubber is good so I decide to blow it inside of her. I flip her over doggy style and start pounding her. My bed starts rocking hard against the wall and I hold back and stop it because my parents are downstairs. My dad was raised a strict Lutheran and he told me that I should never be in my room hooking up with a girl because “He would never do that in his parents house growing up.” I guess he thinks its disrespectful. I think it’s the stupidest thing in the fucking world.

I keep pounding her and then I hear some great words. “God your dick is so massive. I LOVE IT!!!” Haha your damn right! I keep going and blow it in her. I wasn’t sure she knew I was blowing it but I felt like she trusted me enough so I didn’t worry about it. I then pulled out and started rubbing her pussy again while we laid on our backs. “Did you finish?” , she asks. “Yeah im done.” “Did the condom break?” “Haha naw its good. Feel it.” She does, smiles, and I start making out with her again. I then pull off, pull the condom off and throw it in the toilet, then wash my hand off where the jizz was incase she is freaked out by it.

Now is the point where I want to solidify that this will be happening again. I make out with her and make a conscious effort not to make her feel like she made a bad decision. I guess this is taking care of buyers remorse? I hand her her clothes and turn the lights on. I then start making out with her again and slowly kissing her, smiling and looking deeply into her eyes to show her that I appreciate her. I then tell her that we should probably both go to bed because we both have to get up really early. She understands. I walk her out to the car and notice that she looks like she regrets what she did a little. I could have stopped here and still been in great standing but I wanted to finish strong. I pull her over to me once we get outside to my car and start making out with her again. I tell her that I had fun tonight. She says she did too.

We then get in my car and I drive her back to her house. I make another conscious effort to reduce buyers remorse. I tell her im sorry we couldn’t hang out more after and I want to but I have to get up really soon. This is all true too and she completely understands it and agrees with my decision to end our rendezvous.

After I drop her off I then send her this text. Here is the convo:

Me: I guess that’s just our little Christmas break thing now haha.

Her: I mean apparently. 3 years in a row. (We have had sex every Christmas break but she’s always really tough at first. This year was especially tough because she got hotter and definitely stepped her game up. I took her out to dinner a few nights before and had a completely shaky date and after with her. I wrote about that in the general section a little under my Buying Temperature Understood post if you want to read it)

Me: Yeah I guess you like me haha

Her: Haha easy with that ego ______ (my friend whose arrogant, its an inside joke). Don’t be talking crazy now.

Me: Oh so you just sleep with anyone huh? Haha

Her: Haha come on now you know ive had an on and off thing with you since freshman year. Don’t be silly.

Me: Hey that’s just what it sounded like! Haha. And hell I don’t judge its not like it matters anyway.

Her: Haha good point good point. But im about to pass out so ill ttyl.

Me: Goodnight ☺

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