I was out in the field last night and i opened a 3 set HB8-9's. I was two minutes in and one of the HB's clicked and brought up the VH1 show with mystery.

On the spot i just came up with this story about something i had remembered from a Style seminar video i've watched.

"You know before you heckle me... just let me explain something!

I had a friend he was a room mate of my mine... he was a very big boy (gestured with my hands i was on about weight) but he was the greatest bloke we became real good friends...

I helped him to lose his weight and eat well... i even got him to join this martial arts class i was doing....

Well get this.... he lost half his body weight in two years!!!!

Yea wow OMG etc. etc.

But..... the point of this story is... he was still miserable and he had no confidence in himself, even though he was now this slim and quite attractive guy he just couldn't change the inside to deal with this new outside!

Now what matey on that show does is explain how guys can approach attractive ladies, like yourselves, well accept maybe you (neg most beuatiful women in set with smile) and hold a conversation without the girls shutting them down, now whats so bad about that?"

Generally i got a good response, the killer is if one of them wants to find out about the whether the fat guy used the show to get better at approaching women you tell them that actually that fat guy was you!

thats actually pretty good, does not sound like a canned line if you are in trouble

i will keep that in mind

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I'd rather go out swinging than strike out looking.
A lifestyle is a terrible thing to waste.
What I say when I see her is what I'll say.

Thanks Ice i thought it was pretty sweet as i DHV'd with helping him to get thin and that i do martial arts, and i playfully negged the HB i was after. It was like disaster into glory!

Be warned though im english and what works here doesn't necessarily work the same in the US and vice versa, i learnt that the hard way but its all experience i guess.

That's a great way to
recover. Thanks for
the story, bro. I need
to remember that one.