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 Post subject: When to kiss her?
PostPosted: Tue Jan 04, 2011 8:27 am 
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So I'll be having a day 2 with this girl soon, and I'm wondering if this is the time to kiss her? I'm still really new and I'm not sure how far in I should wait until I escalate to kissing. The first (and only) time we met we had a long hug close (she held onto me), and before that I had gotten in a decent amount of kino.

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 04, 2011 11:27 am 
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You should've kissed her from day 1 but that's already passed.

Why not kiss her when yall had the long hug?

Dont wait for the day 2 to end in order to give her the obligatory kiss.

Make the mood right for the kiss.

The right mood is a light mood(wow that rhymed-lol).

Playful mood.

Dont try kiss her when she's relaying to you the story of her dog dying-unless you're skilled.

Make sure the mood is right.And I dont mean romantic,but playful.

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Dont wait for the day 2 to end in order to give her the obligatory kiss.
Agreed.

You have 2 options.

(A) Make sure you kino escalate during the date so that you start off with light friendly touching on shoulder, arm, etc. (in Europe we do double cheek kiss to greet women, but in US I think you guys are more prudish about that sort of thing, I dunno), then go further with touching small of back, leg, etc. Never look where you're touching, and start off with just light touches for a second or two to emphasise a point or laugh at a joke. As the kino gets heavier, the touches can last longer. Once you get to a comfortable situation (e.g. standing up holding her close with one hand holding the small of her back and then other on her arm, or sitting down on a couch with your arm behind her and your legs touching) then just slow down the pace of your talking, make your voice a little deeper, hold eye contact longer, and when there's a pause in conversation, go in. Go on 90% and let her come the last 10%. Then it feels like she kissed YOU. Best to do this in your 2nd or 3rd location on your day 2.

(B) More "advanced" but also more awesome. Build sexual tension during the date by doing all the same things as above, but also turning the conversation sexual, and giving her the kind of eye contact that would make her think you're going to kiss, but then purposefully NOT kissing. Wait till you've got her to your place, and THEN hold one hand behind her head and the other around her back and push her into the wall and kiss her really passionately, but as she's really enjoying it, then be the first to pull away. She may well try and grab you to keep kissing. Now you've got the string for kitty and you can pull it all the way into your bed ;-)

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@Blondguy-Lmao,yea in America I never heard of kissing for greetings.

I thought Europe was more conservative in regards to greetings.

Anyway,good advise Blondguy.

I still have a mini grudge with you for dissing the drink routine of mines but it's all good(lol).

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 04, 2011 10:27 pm 
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ahh I grew up in england as a kid (half english half american) so I was always used to doing that when greeting people and still do in america, most girls dont get offended, some have before but then they see me do it to my good female friends and totally forget bout it and we end up kissing anyways :P

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