introduce myself: male, 22 from belguim, NEW on the forum.
Had 2long relations. Had opportunities over the past years to sleep with 10 girls, only took 3 (I was stupid)! now I'm single and want to have more girls but no relationship! I'm not(yet) a pua, I never ever took the first step

parents are on holiday!!!!

question 1

I played a girl, had a date, she's hot, but not my type so i ignored her. I think she's in love, I don't, but I want sex! So i invited her over at my place next week, what do I do?

- have sex and tell her afterwards I don't want a relationship?
risk: 1 time sex, brake her hart, and feel guilty
- have sex and don't tell anything until she brings it up?
risk: invitation for relation on facebook, brake her hart, and feel guilty
- first tell her that she's not my type and ask if she is in need of sex?
risk: nothing happens, just friends


Question 2

I'm going to diner whit my ex girl, haven't seen her for 2 years. Now I'm single and she started texting and asking me out again (even though she has a boyfriend).

How do I ask her if she want's sex without causing trouble or hard feelings. I think she want's it but how do I find out? in what words?


please help me seriously
thanks!

answer 1: are u sure she is in love ? did she told u or how do u know ? now u must now that this is not the place to debate wheter is moral or not to have sex with a girl thats in love with u and then leave her, only U can DECIDE whats best for u,

personally i never feel guilty for sleeping with girls that have feelings for me and then leave them, actually i dont leave them until they want more frome me, wheter is relationship or love them back, and i only have done it like 3 or 4 times, sure they feel sad an everything but they will get over it, they will meet plenty of guys after us who can give them what they want, but thats only my way, if u think that U are gonna feel a lot of guilt after have sex and leave her, then u probably shouldnt do it, cuz whats the point of having sex and then feeling bad about it

answer 2: i dont think u should ask her, u need to find out for urself, how?, easy, be alone with her, develop rapport, uso kino, search for ioi, and escalate her to the kiss

thx 4 the answer, more tips are welcome!

in love: I'm not sure, but sinds we went on that date she's texting almost every day(for 2 weeks), I don't reply mutch :p

Can I ask her in what way she likes me? if the answer is negative, I'll go for it :d otherwise I'll be honest en tell her what I want? wurst case: we're just friends...

if she is texting u alot then she must like u a lot

with the other one, i actually have a no ask policy and here its why, when u ask a girl if she likes u or if u can kiss her or somthing like that, what ur doing is that basically ur putting urself out there, in the line of fire, with no protection at all, u just revealed ur intentions with her, u have confess that u want to be with her, u give her the power to either take u or reject u, when it should be the other way around

there are guys who have a different (from mine) stlye of flirting that makes asking ok, but in my style (call it safer if u like) i never ask the girl anything, i just assume the girl is in to me and act like it, then she enters in my mental frame and its basicaly easy from there, i dont ask, i make things happen without having to ask anything, i act with confidence, search for the ioi and then escalete to the kiss

if u really want to ask her, then the best for u is find a guy who has that type of flirting and ask him to teach how to do it, the tips, the hints, etc

if ur gonna ask her i suggest u to learn how to do it first (again, the way of flirting that makes asking ok) sorry that i cant help u more, i dont dominate/use that stlye cuz it doesnt fits my personality or my gaming, if u want to know more about my style feel free to ask, i wish u the best luck, u know u can do it

thanks! very useful information!!!!

Girl question 1:
but how do I make clear that i don't want a LTR without asking what she's into?
do i just assume that she wants the same thing?


Girl questions 2:
I go tot diner with her en see what happens, she picked me up 4years ago, if she wants somting she'll probably try it.

You just tell her that you want to get to know her better but you are also seing other girls and that you don't want to dump them all for someone you just met. Also tell het that you are doing this so that you can find your true love faster. she'll like that and she'll try to be your true love.

also make shure that you have a really strong frame about this, she'll live in your reallity.

Gianni.

tonight is the night with the first chick! fucking nervous

Tell her that she needs to know that you are "not boyfriend material right now." Take it or leave it

Yes you just assume, and do it without any douth, again, have a strong frame.

FAIIIIIIIILLLLLLl
an kclose, and we talked, get to know eichother. whent to a movie were erverybody was banging eichother! nice, i told her we should do it to an we kissed, but she backed of. She knows what i want and she's said that we should go out together and she will intreduce me to her friends (she has a lot! she's popular)


result: good friends, she leading me to other HB's

Good, start, you should learn some LMR-tactics then, shouldn't you

what are LMR-tactics?

last night, after the date, and my post we texted a bit and I said she was very attractive and the I wanted her so bad. the texting evaluated to

she: I had a great time
me: me too, but don't know what you desire from me (i thougt I knew, but gave it a last shot) I just think you're hot
she: have the same feeling, i cant deny that think you're very handsome and fun! (i thought i made it clear)
me: cant be the prince on the white horse! can only give you an "open relationship"
she: what is an open relation for you?
me: sex-relation, no question, no obligations. But i guess thats not you?
she: what makes you thing that? i never had one. I'm very attracted to you! But wanne stay good friends too
me: friends with something extra! tomorrow 9o clock at my place!
she: make it Wednesday, then I haven't planned any studying sleep tight
me: okee, Wednesday it is good night.


conclusion: she wants me and plays along with what I want! I was a moron last night to not be more confident ! Have to start beleving every girl wants me, it would things so easy!

update about wednesday if you like
thx for the support guys

lmr= last minut rejection
I guess she didn't reject directly I just kissed and didn't risk more. (no confidence)

if i think a bout it an reread this, it makes no sense... girls are hard to understand :p Ill have to act more and think less

Salut!


You have balls. For this simple line you should be given a Pulitzer reward. You don't know how much light you just produced in my head.

Salut!

Surielx.

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LMR, the R stands for resistancen not rejection but that doesn't really mather.

LMR-tactics are tactics you use to break through LMR, you can look some up, examples are: freezing out, sexual teasing, etc..

Or what's even better is just make her wan't you so bad, then YOU give her LMR and then when she is the moste desperate you say "well.. ok then, becous it's you.."

Gianni.