hello...my gf been for 3 months lies so damn much and i hate lies...
guys help me out here ccuz im stuck. here the problem:

in new year i was working so she went to party up in the mountais...and told me she had no signal for phone, the thing is shes sit all day long on that crappy palringo a fucked up chatting program chatting with people over the world. and she was signed on there by 3g!
i was like fine maybe she wants a break.
and now we spoke on the msn and then she said i gtg eat...then i went on parlingo and saw that she just lied.
she said that to me so she can talk in peace with a arab guy over there.

i feel so damn bad right now i dont if i say why did u lie i saw u chating with that guy.
she will be like omfg are you spying on me u salker?!?
how do i bust here? and make her feel bad about lying?

Break up with her.

she's pushing your boundaries. tell her straight up whats bugging you or else she'll keep going further and further. trust me, ive had a gf in the past like this. it didn't take long before she broke up with me. so u just gotta man up and tell her. maybe freezing her out could help too

just break up with her. if she is blatantly lying to you about little shit...just imagine what will happen when the relationship progresses. there`s no technique for this one. she has fucked up character, so let her be someone else`s problem.

yea, what the fuck, a decent girlfriend shouldn't lie to you about the little things, that means she's not really trustworthy and the relationship will probably only go down if she keeps it up....

I think best for you to do is comfront her, since you are not liking it, and state what you want, break up if needed!

so she stops wasting ur time with bullshit like this, there are more and better girls out there....

its easy to say that to someone as a tips but i have feelings for her...but logical thinking i cant change her,,,

Just tell her that you don't tolerate lying (only do so when you caught her though) and tell her it has to stop, or otherwise the relationship has to stop, and be convincing in the process

of course you have feelings for her, but you have to put them aside and look at how she is treating you. Just talk to her about it but i would suggest doing this as youre breaking up with her.

Take it from experience that catching a girl in a lie doesn't work out the way you may think. She wont apolagize, if anything she will get mad and shut down to you, maybe even beak up with you and think youre weird for trying to catch her lying. This has happend to me twice, where i caught a gf doing bad things and its not worth it.

If you want to save the relationship, break up with her and let her try to convince you to keep dating her. What you do at that point is up to you but let me tell you that girls like this dont change.

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~Carmo~

what you said is so true! beacuse i giv her alots of hints...trying to make her relize that i know shes lying and what she did today was to shut me down...she will never admit it and she calls me crazy. its funny how girls these days are so damn fucked up

@Moody,
Dude theyre all crazy, i flat out caught an ex girlfriend on plenty of fish giving out her # and making dates. When i called her out on it she just was like OMG, I am not going to have this conversation with you! I broke up with her and never spoke to her again hahah what a bitch.

Im just saying theres no point trying to catch her so you can show her the evidence. if you feel what she is doing is wrong than 9/10 times you are right and she is being untruthful and not respecting you. Its up to you but my thought is that life is too short to waste times with girls that are liars.

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~Carmo~

Trust me. It's not worth it to try to save the relationship.

Even though you have feelings for her, if she's lying about small things she probably has bigger lies you never caught.
Remember you'll find other girls and have feelings for them too. So, you better have feelings for a decent one that you can trust.

You can't change anyone, so as someone said above, let her be other guy's problem.

She probably already knows she's lying and she knows you don't like it. She keeps doing it. So do you really think she likes and respects you?

Let the bitch drawn in her own mistakes.

I live by this song lyrics now: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nADdmLe- ... re=related

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"Their compliance is,
'Does she grab your hand?' F*ck you! I want to grab her mind. If I can
grab her mind, she'll be grabbing whatever I want, any way I want her to." - Ross Jeffries

thanks alot guys...really really helped! im not gonna dumb her...im gonna be like her...lie straight in her face so she can relize that i lie too haha....just testing see where this is going.

dont fool yourself into thinking you have the upper hand. Women like that are just not worth it. Plain and simple.

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~Carmo~

right shes hurting me...i have to giv up on her ...fuck

I understand where you are coming from and i am sure you care about her. I went through this with a girl but it was a lot worse where i caught her cheating but she kept denying it and i lied to myself thinking she could change. But of course she wasn't going to change so its really just lying to yourself. I should have just cut her out of my life from the first sign if lying/cheating but i dragged it on for a few months and it really messed with my head.

Learn from my mistake and just make a clean break and move on and find a better girl. Once you go through this you will have zero patience for girls who lie and cheat. There are a ton of better girls out there, so dont pay attention to that creeping feeling that you wond find anyone better, you will I promise. Good luck.

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~Carmo~