Since my chat with my new relationship choach, I realize that being friends is by far the worst position to be in if you ever want to be lovers. So in 2011, I want to stop being friends with hot girls in my social life.

I am making progress in my bad boy attitude, asking multiple girls out with success, push & pulling and teasing them. It works. But the hottest girl I am friends with picks up on it that I am not chasing her anymore. Usually when we hung out, I was the one who texted her 80% of the times. I was too insecure to make my move and I've worn a friend mask for half a year. We've been talking too much and now she thinks I enjoy listening to her adventures with guys, which is a pain in the ass to listen to for me.

It's been 3 weeks since I texted her. I ignored her last text, and yesterday she approached me on FB. She noticed that I've been hanging out with a lot of girls, and that some of them want me. She says she is interested in hearing about it (in a friendly way or out of jealousy? I don't know)

My coach says that I shouldn't give in and text her again. The more ignoring, the better. But she's realizing that things are changing and I don't want her to ask tough questions when we meet again. I don't want to listen to her boy stories either.

How do I proceed? Last time I told her I'd text her again when I have time to hang out. I want to keep building my image and not turn into the good old listening friend again

I'd like to make adaptations in my new behavior and I want people to give me feedback on it.

* I used to make mistakes in my texting, giving her the impression that I enjoyed her company so much. And telling her I find her attractive but without giving her the idea that I want her sexually. What is a good text to send? I don't wanna be a butkisser but on the other hand if I send her nothing she doesn't know she gives me a hardon

* Whenever she mentions a guy she likes, I want to change the subject and not give her any feedback. That is how I ended up being her friend

* I want to market myself as much as I can, telling exciting stories about women and how bad they want me

What other adjustments can I make? I want to keep her guessing but not make her mad

Sounds like you're doing everything right.

At the end of this freeze-out, invite her out to something where you will be in the company of multiple girls, some of whom you know are attracted to you and will be flirting with you, or you've already fucked, or who you're in the process of gaming.

At this point, if you have a fun evening together, make the introductions and are the centre of attention, be sexual and flirty with all the girls pretty much equally, then it is likely that, if she felt any attraction for you before, she will try and vie for your attention. It is then up to you to game her as normal with plenty of kino and sexual escalation, and take things from there.

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Here's something I had in mind. She has 2 close hot friends I recently met. Is it a good plan if I mention that I find them hot? Like "Next time we hang out you better invite that blonde friend of yours. She's cute"

Check this.

I was planning to outplay her at a party, inviting some women to make her jealous and convey value.
Now she tells me she has invited a guy, and she says she might kiss him (texted that with a smiley behind it wtf) He's not her lover though. She started talking about him a few times without me asking her something. Just out of the blue.

There's a very good chance she is trying to make me jealous. How do I play back at her? I'm planning to not show up, and go to a different party instead without telling her in advance.

A friggin minor trying to outplay me, and I have 5 girls running after me. Now I'm gonna ignore her even harder

If you've got 5 girls after you, then why the hell do you care about this one? The reason she's mentioned the guy is because she thinks you're platonic friends and so you guys can talk about your relationships.

If you actually like her, then just stay friends. If she sees you in the company of other girls she will get jealous and she will vie for your attention. Maybe not this particular time, but some other time.

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Also, this is supposed to be about having fun and getting girls. It's not some battle you have to "win" by fucking around with people. Purposely not showing up as some kind of ploy is retarded. If you want to go to the party, then go. Have a fun time, see her, be awesome and fun and flirty, and then bounce with some of your chicks to someplace else later if you want. She may well ditch the guy to come with you, or not. Either way, just do what makes you have the most fun, and show you think she's cool and you guys have a good time together, but you could take or leave her because you have options.

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She is easy to kiss, a nymfo, and I want to fuck her brains out. I don't care about her emotionally though because she is emotionally abusive and dangerous. But she makes me horny
When we talk, she talks about herself and I have made the mistake of listening. There is no true friendship with her, more of a need to have people listening to her drama
It is actually a small party and all the others are older people that both of us don't know. So we have each other to entertain and that's it

Imagine you are sitting at a table with a couple, having dinner. The couple is constantly hugging and kissing. Doesn't it irritate you? It does irritate me and many others. And not only when it's someone I find hot.
There is a big difference between inviting women to show high value, and inviting a boy toy to kiss in presence of other people. It irritates the crap out of me, no matter who it is

By not coming I'm trying to say " as an alpha male, you have to give ME attention and make an effort. If you don't, I just take someone else that gives me the attention I deserve "

Might be cocky, but coming over and being out of the spot light is beta male imo.
She is not my only option and I want to make her realize that