Im with a girl that when we first met whas different, I mean, independent, going out with her friends. But she changed in the first month with me.

She told me she's obsessed, that other people annoy her because im not that people (i don't know if u understand what I say) that she onlye want to be with me and be isolated from everyone else, that she get insane and desperate when im not around. That other guys are disgusting and she don't want to talk with them or her friends and things like that. She became clingy, needy. To be honest it doesn't piss me off

What happened? is this a pattern that it can be done with other girls?

She told me and tell me all the time that im different from the other guys she met.


I don't know why is this happening.

She's a female AFC. She'll change and grow a pair when she's tired of being spineless and jerked around.

No, she was pretty different before that, she changed a couple of weeks, when we were a couple.

Doesn't change my answer. Female AFC. Insecure, needy, afraid this is her one and only shot at love so she is giving it her all and is turning her back on everything and everyone else and trying to isolate you from the rest of your friends and family too.

If you are digging this and and want her to do this, you have a whole world of hurt and pain coming your way.

Why do you say that?

If you truly don't know and have to ask then I don't know if I can provide an adequate answer that will make any sense.

I'll try though and hope something sinks in. The reason this is not a good scenario is because she is not mature and emotionally healthy and immature and unhealthy chicks are not capable of maintaining a healthy relationship. She will be manipulative and demanding and unable to function on her own without your constant assistance and intervention.

At first you will feel like "the MAN" and her protector and her knight in shining armor. You will be flattered by her constant attention and appreciation for you being there for her.

BUT in time that will turn into an unhealthy dependence where you will need to do even the simplest of tasks for her and she will become critical and bitching that you aren't doing it right.

She will manipulate her way in between you and your friends and family because anything you do with them will take time away from her.

She will accidently "forget" to take her birth control pills and suddenly you now have an additional dependant child on your hands. Now that you are morally and legally accountable to her it will get a hundred times worse.

Eventually what was once the cuddly little sex-ktten is now man-eating saber tooth tiger who's soul purpose is to chew off your balls and suck the lifeforce out of you.

Neediness, dependance, alienation from friends/family and outside interests are ALWAYS a danger sign and a red flag of things to come whether it is from an AFC male or an AFC female.

The reason AFC females are so dangerous is they know what they are doing and they instinctively do it well and males that want to dominate and control females are the most vulnerable to them.

A lot of those things are happening now.

What its really weird in this is the way she treat to other males, the way she ignore to everyone else, feeling so uncomfortable (I saw her like that).

zomg,

you just explained what i lived through for twelve years, lol.

I would encourage her to go out and do the stuff that she enjoys, see her other friends, and generally suggest positive things that she could do outside of seeing you.

You could emphasise to her all the positive qualities you admired in her when you guys just met, and say how attractive you found the way she's really independent and outgoing, etc.

Then you could just try and be a little more busy and make sure you're not seeing her too often, so you kind of force her to fill her time when she's not seeing you.

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Yes, most of my relationship too.
I tried, she thought that I was trying to get rid of her or I was changing.

I really do not understand why such a change, that's the part that I don't really get it.

She was independent, a girl who liked to be with her friends, now she feel uncomfortable (I have seen how she treat to other guys and ignore her friends and most of her family..) and now she has a total emotional dependence on me.

Even in one moment I thought I was behaving like a cheesy guy and that she would never be with me for that and things like that (attention, support, emotional support, affection).

Sounds like you've got a nice pet.

She's not my pet.

I really would like to know what happened with her, I thought I was doing everything wrong.

Im amazed because she's a really beautiful girl.

Man, you're just judging her on looks. You've never had this happen to you before so you want to make yourself think you're "fine" about it. LOOK at the title of your own thread. "My Gf's behavior is pretty different, what's wrong". You've already mentioned the word "wrong". You would not have created this if you were truly fine with her. It would be different if you two split and THEN she was needy because it's an obvious thing "When you don't have what you wanted anymore, you become needy." Her neediness is not because of something isn't present anymore, it's because of fear. This is not even love, it IS AFC. Love doesn't have any fear..you cannot be afraid of something not coming back. You can only be afraid of something about to happen or is happening.

Maybe I took the wrong term.

But until now, noone told me exactly why such change on her despite my poor behavior and those things. These are the things Im trying to understand.

Please, pals, can you tell me why she turned into an AFC girl, what happened?

Im not tired of her, i just find curious that this is the second time that happen this with a girl. And yes, i would like to know.

Thank you in advance.