I've been a nice guy for a long time, it does pay sometimes, but most of the times it backfires. It really depends on the girl.
It reminds me few days ago a fuck buddy of mine told me I can really be an asshole. Since I consider her as a friend, I told her that being a nice guy is for pussies. If I'm a nice guy, people will walk on my step. She got upset, maybe she figured out I wasn't acting like a nice guy to her on purpose.
As other said, you need to mix it up, you can be a gentleman.

Wouldn't be to much of a challenge if that didnt happen.

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i would love to read that.

Be the good guy, not the nice guy, nor the asshole.

Don't bend over backwards for a girl, on the other side of things don't be a stubborn little prick.

It's fine to tease etc, be a bit of a knob etc. but make sure it's only playful. If you're going to insult her, say it with a joking smile on your face andmake sure she realizes this.

Shock but don't offend.

So you've got the asshole game plugged and it seems you've already figured out the ideal audience for this gig. If you're bored with it, (the act, the girls, the scene, the outcomes, the emotions you feel, etc . . ) it just means you're ready to take on a new angle in game. You'll see changes in the girls you attract, the type of things you like to do . . . in fact, you might even feel attracted to different type of girls altogether. And I don't mean just their 'attitudes' or 'personalities' but even physical appearance.

You have a distinct advantage over 'natural assholes'. They don't have a choice. They will continue to interact with rancid projectors of negativity and won't have a clue as to "WHY"? You have a choice.

Thanks Kasabi, I think youre right. As it turns out, met a great girl over the new years weekend. It was a friend visiting my best friends girlfriend for the week so it was easy since we were in the same social circle.

On new years eve i had played the ass whole pretty well to get her attracted and wound up spending the night together. It was once of those awesome connections that only come along once in a while but we wound up spending the entire weekend together and she actually said she's never been treated so well to the point where she was crying last night when we had to say goobye at the airport. Like Adam said, I was the good guy, not the nice guy and not the asshole and it worked out well. Shitty that she lives so far away as this one was a keeper.

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