| Going into one of the hottest night clubs in Sacramento (TRE) was an experience in itself. From the size of the bar, to the effects, to the sheer size of it seemed emasculating lol. Like walking into the Sisteen chapel... only, not like that at all.
A girl I had previously picked up, Shaylynn, invited me to come to her VIP section (no charge and two free bottles of alcohol to be delivered to the table because of her promoting power). I decided that no matter what my plans were, to break them. First and foremost, I had to play it Alpha. Inivted me through facebook, so I replied, "this late? I dunno... It would have to be pretty important for me to get away." Within 20 minutes of my post... She called:
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Her: Hey stranger what are you doing?
Me: Don't talk to strangers, that's how things go bump in the night.
Her: Hmm... you gonna come to TRE tonight? Its about time you did.
Me: I might go, but I've got something to do first... IF I make it out in time, you'll see me. Put me on the list either way, and we'll see if you get to have fun tonight.
Her: Whatever you say, just don't flake on me again!
Me: I never flaked, flat out told you I'd be busy. I'm sorry that you are less important than school, work, and family. You still rate above cheese... so feel comfortable.
Her: Just be here, I miss your face! Haven't seen you in forever.
Me: You buying me a drink?
Her: Of course.
Me: Shit! Got to go...
Her: Bye
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I showed up around 11:30 PM. Caught some definitive IOIs that I was on my way to persue, when Shaylynn appeared directly in front of me. Damn. She brought me through the dance floor to her VIP section where a group of her friends were kicking back with a bottle of Grey Goose, and a bottle of Henessey. Three guys, and six girls were throwing shots back as I walked in. I greeted them all but wasn't listening to names... hitting on these girls could be trouble for my free night at the club. We talked for about fifteen minutes... however, everyone wanted to know who this new guy was(me), two girls had told me they were with a group of girls that were known through a friend/friend of a friend.
I knew... that to infultrate this outside group AND locate the girl I locked eyes with upon entering, I not only had to become the center of attention/attraction, but, I had to do it with this HB8(Shaylynn) glued to my hip, as it were.
I opened a conversation about school...(Im a college student, most of them were too)...
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ME: it was hard finishing 16 units this semester
Girl 1: Wow, I'd die if I took more than 12! How did you do it?
ME: Its not hard, just keep your focus, and like your classes. You all go to school.. what are your majors?
Girl 1: Philosaphy, Girl 2:Business, Girl 3: Art History...
ME: That sucks... those are the three worst majors there are! Don't know what you want to do with your lives?
Girls: We do... bla bla bla.. If you are so great, whats your major?
ME: English.
Girls: much better... lol group laughter
ME: Id like to teach underpriveleged children in a seperate country one day, and travel wherever Shakespeare takes me? What do you want to do with your majors?
Girls: *silence*...
ME: Im taking your friend to the floor to freak me, We can talk later.
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Dance Dance Dance... I intentionally try to look bored with Shay, to catch the interest of other girls around the floor. Mission accomplished. I caught the eye of the brunette HB9 again!
After the song is over, we approach the girl... yes, WE... I told shay this girl was an old friend from HS. (my lab buddy in biology)
WARNING!!! WHEN APPROACHING THIS SITUATION, BE CONFIDENT, AND KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE GOING TO DO TO HANDLE IT!!!
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before introduction, I walked immediately up to this girl and gave a squinted face like i couldnt see her. "JENNIFER???!?!?" I exclaimed, to show excitement of an old friend. She says, "umm no? Samantha," still smiling at me in a questioning manner. I went in and gave her a huge hug while whispering in her ear, "Play along, you know me from high school, Im Andrew... I promise I will tell you what this is all about later if you can humor me now." I pull away.
She's like, "OMG Andrew, it's been sooooo long!" (I knew I had her because she was playing along)
ME: You look great! But why does your hair smell like grape soda? Are you half black, I dont remember? (she wasnt black at all just by looking at her, but I had to push her envelope to talk to her later). Nevermind haha... anyway, this is my friend Shaylynn, she promotes for a few clubs here in Sacramento.
*They shook hands*.. How was your trip to Spain?! That must have been absolutely gorgeous! Oh we will catch up later.. I dont want to be rude to my hostess! You were like my best friend back in the day! Give me your number, and you, I, and your boyfriend Tom as I remember, can catch up together. How is Tom? (put a girl on the spot like that and 8/10 times she will fold and go with the answer you want)
Sam: Still with him... That dork! And yeah Id love to hang out again!
I handed her my phone, she put in her number and Shaylynn and I walked away.
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Shay had NO idea what had just happened... it was simply to fast for her to comrehend... THIS IS THE STRATEGY YOU HAVE TO GO IN WITH! Keep the situation evolving, and it is hard to fail.
We met back up with her friends and chatted for a while... Shay and I found a dark corner and made out for a while... Until I got a text message from a friend and told her it was work calling me... I stepped away... and motioned for
There is NO reason Sam would forget me... but for insurance i got her attention and motioned for her to come with me to the patio on the other side of the establishment.
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Me: OMG thank you for your help... she wouldn't leave my side. Finally letting her know I had a friend here Id like to talk to, she let up on me.
Sam: Uh huh... so my hair smells like grape soda? haha
Me: I know you aren't black. I just wanted to make life more interesting for you other than simply helping me out with a problem. Maybe I can help you out with one sometime, if Tom doesn't mind.
Sam: ahaha I don't think he will... seeing as how Im single (qualification)
Me: Well take down my number... and I promise mid-week, I'll take you somewhere... I've got to go... If I dont leave and lose Shaylynn soon, she'll become a permanent backpack. One more vitally important thing, if she come's back to talk to you about me, KEEP THE STORY ALIVE... I promise Im not dating her... ask for yourself!
Sam: Ok. See you later
(We were standing close, she qualified herself... so I k-closed her... it's just that easy)
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Found shay and told her that work needed me to come back and I would hook back up with her at the end of the night... at her house, if she was lucky. I left...
Apparently Shay's friends asked about me all night... LOL must've made a good impression being a confident, witty, dick to everyone...
I ended up F-closing both girls.. but that is a story for another day... and in a different thread. Hope this gives insight into what you CAN do if you want another number and are kicking it with a girl for the first time after pulling her number(shay)
Last edited by Andy Nice on Sun Jan 02, 2011 5:06 am, edited 1 time in total.
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