Hello - sorry about the title /wink

Im a young (16) but mature male from the UK, and I became interested with this so-called 'PUA' game after watching the video documentary on Youtube.

As an introduction:
Male, good looking, tall (6ft.1), black hair, white skin, good sense of style/clothing.

Im pretty high-achieving in everything I do, Grade 8 Music, on track for mostly A* grades in my exams, very keen sportman --> muscular body + abdominal region xD

I used to be sure that I had a tight-nit group of friends, I had no trouble socialising, I was rather mischievous but generally a good guy in my opinion. Then for roughly one year I was playing hardcore games (MMO's hook me like HELL) and during this long period I was permanently tired, grumpy, had extremely strained relations with my family at home and couldnt be fucked with friends besides my gaming buddies. I also used to do A LOT of sport and I ended up quitting those clubs, which may have impacted my situation.

Anyway, right now after quitting the games and trying to get my social/fun side which used to be the heart and soul of the jokes/fun amongst my friends back, I feel im doing OK but im really not great at getting with girls at parties which I feel is holding me back.

I dont think its helped by my hardcore attitude to most things, or my height and my slightly frequent breakouts of spots, but theyre just silly and I know girls who flirt with my / text me and when it comes to parties and I see them I just dont really do anything. I never get any pussy, and I want to put this shit right now. Im a bit socially awkward, until I get to know people well, so maybe ill fair better when I get to know girls better, but I want to be on the top of my game and pull older, sexier girls than my friends but also just to develop a relationship with the opposite sex.

I will work hard at any things anyone siggests to me here because I know you dudes know your stuff and I cant wait to learn from you.

Thanks so much for reading, my e-mail is Shadowpriest5@yahoo.co.uk if you want to PM me, please do .

PS: Im currently at a single sex male school which may have an impact... Mixed school next year!

Good luck!
and I think you have to consider doing sports again.

Ahimsa, nice to meet you.

I'm just going to say don't worry too much about how things have gone last year, you still have your youth which is definitely a positive thing. You are going to learn so much about yourself and life in general over the next 5 plus years. I certainly did, particularly between 16-18 sixth form years and then just as much over the university age 19-21. It's natural to f*ck things up, it's how we learn and I'm so impressed that you have identified the cause of your problems (the games). most people can't see the problems that they have and as such they can't fix them.

It sounds like you have your head screwed on.

As for not getting pussy, again you are only 16! Just because more kids are having sex earlier these days it doesn't mean you have to. My first was at 17 and I'm not ashamed of it, I probably could argue that I should have waited even longer but that's neither here nor there (I'm not assuming you have not had sex yet but just giving you my side of the story). Even if the common consensus in your school/friendship group is having sex frequently, the reality is probably far less than that, if I was you I would concentrate more on the pick-up up to the kiss close. I still enjoy getting random kiss closes even if it goes no further. Again, sorry if i'm overstepping the line here.

As for the spots, I started getting breakouts when I was about your age, they were a killer for my self confidence, it's worth getting on top of them now to prevent scarring and or confidence hits, the dr can help you, or if you want to PM me you can.

Anyway, I think I have rambled on enough. You are in the right place, I wish I knew about this stuff when I was your age, would have made things so much easier for me. I would say probably working on your inner game will help a lot at this early stage, but thats just my opinion.

All the best!

vagus i swear im stalking you.

fella do not worry about the sex. i lost my virginity when i was 15...bad mistake...i didnt have sex again until i was 17...imagine how that feels. your lucky in my opinion.

agreed vagus, inner game is the way forward. you already seem like a confident guy with your banter and "jokes" around school, your music which requires balls already. sport too...requires balls...you my friends...have balls.

if you work on your innerself... learn confidence now and people skills. being the life of the party, being fun, knowing and feeling comfortable with yourself, then girls will come naturally. learn to be your best self now and then you'll be unstoppable. once you have mastered yourself, begin to learn how to pick up chicks in bars in stuff. wait until you've become your most awesome stuff. learning to pick up chicks in bars is slightly pointless...your at a all guys school, your not old enough to go out [although you probs do]. just learn how to talk to woman, how to be THAT guy. and next year at this mixed school youll be mister awesome who all the girls fancy...

as for the sport...keep it up, even if its just working out, youll feel more confidence. if you go up to a girl with no confidence and gamer her...shel reject her... go up to her with confidence and say N E THING. shel be intereseted... go up to her with confidence and gamer her...youll have pussy.

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