Alright, so right now im gaming/hooking up with three girls. 2 out of 3 want a relationship, but my 'main' girl (let's call her Girl 1) and I have a 'thing'. (we both openly like eachother. ive f-closed her as well)

So last night I was at a party and I was trying to bring Girl 1 with me and my friends. She said she couldn't sneak out so we went on without her. She was texting me saying 'please don't hook up anybody there. or at least tell me if you do' and getting really paranoid I was gonna hook up with somebody. I didn't (no HBs there anyways) so she was happy. Not gonna lie though, before the party I was chilling with one of the other girls im gaming and I kissed her a few times, so im not completely innocent.


About an hour ago Girl 1 texted me:

her: "you dont get to be my new years kiss tonight!"
me: "thats fine, as long as nobody takes my spot "
her: "its kinda a rule you have to kiss someone at midnight!"
me: "Oh, I see.."
her: "orr bad luck"
me: "well itd be back luck for the dudes face if i see him "
her" "haa okay babe"
convo is kind of taking a turn back to the norm now.


We're sort of exclusive I guess. A few days ago one of my other girls left a video on my facebook talking about how she wants me to play her a song on guitar/other sketchy stuff that kinda gave me away, and Girl 1 saw it and got really upset and accused me of playing her. I told her the girl is crazy/stalkerish and got off the hook and f-closed Girl 1 that night.
So whether or not she will kiss someone now....she still seemed down for kissing another dude. Would this piss you off? I mean, she was getting so worked up last night at the thought of me touching another girl and then does this...? She's really clingy as you can tell, and seemingly pretty loyal so this thing kinda took me off guard. What do you guys think? Shit test maybe..?


Also, I can't get out tonight because my parents are nazi about tonight being the riskiness night to be on the roads so I'm not allowed to drive anywhere. So I can't meet up and be her kiss or go kiss another girl tonight for revenge haha.

You're asking should you feel bad. By asking should, you are suggesting there is a moral qualm with what you are doing right now to girl 1 and potentially others. If this girl is really clingy and does not accept the possibility of you with other women then it would be in your benefit to respect that. Lying and finding relational loop holes just doesn't seem like the best way to pick up and game to me. Enjoy girl 1 while you have her. When you are ready for another dump her and get another, simple as that.

Sean Erus

haha, i think you misunderstood man. I'm asking would a girl you're sort of exclusive with wanting to kiss another guy bother you, even if its just for 'good luck' on new years?