| This sounds like a pretty serious, and rare, situation. If she's provoking people to attack you, and there's actually a risk of them doing just that, you need to be careful. She sounds like one of those 'weird' chicks, everyone knew at least one growing up, they can be very unpredictable.
Here's the long and the short of it, from where I'm sitting. If the two of you have mutual friends, and these friends are OK with how she apparently treats you, I say get new friends. If they are actually the kind of friends worth keeping, they aren't going to have a problem backing you up (and I don't mean fighting, I mean cutting her out). The fact that your boys haven't stood up for you already is pretty suspect, but I know I don't have even close to all the information.
It also sounds like you're in high school, take my word for it, your social life later in life will be very different from what you're experiencing now, my advice of 'get new friends' might seem silly on it's own if if seems like they're the only friends you have to choose from. They aren't, you just haven't seen enough of the world to believe it yet.
If she won't talk things out with you, then fuck her. If she incites people to assault you, report them, and her, to the police. If she incites people to assault you, or assaults you herself, stand up for yourself and don't be the only one who walks away with bruises. Don't ever let someone make you feel afraid, or ashamed of who you are.
People that participate in this sort of behavior are at their cores, cowards, if you truly aren't going to be abused and pushed around, they'll find easier targets. You have a right to be treated with respect, it's just one of those rights you have to defend yourself.
Good luck man,
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