I don't really know how to describe them..

Ok well the usual social group I go out with on weekends changes a lot.. sometimes I go out with this group of girls with some friends but all those girls in that group act extremely similar, not like any other girls I've talked to before.. It seems they've all learned from each other and act the same way now haha.

well a few of the girls in that group I know are interested in me, they go through the randomest oldest pictures on my facebook and start commenting on them. One grabs onto my arm when we walk, comes up with nicknames for me etc. etc. , most of them are extremely good looking.. I try not to talk to them but they message me and shit, they may just be really good at flirting or playing around, but scoring this type of girl is my weakness..

this is the type of stuff they write (to let you know how their personality is..) ..
"awesome nigga just tell me when cus you know ill alway sbe there for my men! haha..oh no problem i got you home dog hah i think im black" & she calls me dude, which confuses me a shitload because her body language is totally different from the way she talks to me when we're not in front of each other physically.. I've realized she talks like this to almost everyone .

I get extremely confused when girls start calling me words that world normally "friend-zone" someone, but I've also had an experience in which I liked a girl about a year ago and she'd always call me "dude", thinking I was friend-zoned, later to find out she really liked me and even cried over me when I went for a different girl.. but I know that MOST of the time it does put you in that "friend-zone" which I try to avoid at all costs..

So I don't really know what to do with these types of girls that "play around" a lot and seem like they're really into you then all of a sudden seem to start friend-zoning you.. they're kinda confusing me and I need to solve this.

thanks !

Compliments from a girl are called IOI's. It means they are interested.

You should try to isolate the girl that you are interested in and then take things to the next level.

It's really stupid if you liked a girl and never actually let her know. Girls joke around all the time and make up names. Take these as IOI's.

False. Compliments are not always an IOI.



rezrez0 - When a girl is being playful with you, she is more than likely flirting with you. Weather or not she is actually into you is being able to read her body language and words. Not easy but with experience you be able to tell.

Play with them. Playful girls are awesome.

They also make it easier than boring girls to run game. I get endless material when I'm dealing with a playful girl.

As antic said about, you have to escalate to the next level to see if her IOIs mean something. IOI's can be temporary, but when you turn it into investment and compliance than it means something.

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'Does she grab your hand?' F*ck you! I want to grab her mind. If I can
grab her mind, she'll be grabbing whatever I want, any way I want her to." - Ross Jeffries

when I'm with them in person it feels as if they're flirting with me a lot but then they start calling me nigga and stuff like that, and it makes me feel friend-zoned.. not sure what to take of that..

it confuses me a lot and I'm not sure if they consider me just "friends" or actually like me..

I'm in the same situation, is a good idea to be in a relationship with a playful girl? and how can you handle them?

Ok fair enough but when the compliment is something about how good looking you are I would take that as an IOI.

[quote]As antic said about, you have to escalate to the next level to see if her IOIs mean something. IOI's can be temporary, but when you turn it into investment and compliance than it means something.[/img]

this seems good. thank you :]

these types of girls are harder to read than the usual :\

You more have to ask your self can you handle such behavior? If you can't then better not be in a relationship with them.

They are harder to read no doubt. But you can if you go slow.