A friend of mine who's a 'Natural' (well, he claims to be anyways) seems to have decent success with:

Hi. So, how many hearts have you broken today? or some variation of that (i.e. "Breaking any hearts today, gorgeous?"). It seems to work better on younger girls (under 25) than older, and when delivered with a big, cocky smile. The nice thing is that this is so brief that you could combine it with other openers and material or could be especially useful at reengaging a set you've previously opened and are going back too. But I haven't field tested it myself...

I think that this might work because of a slight underlying psycho-babble in that you're sort of alternatively giving her a compliment (men want her) and sort of implying that she's a cold-hearted or frigid, as it seems to break the ice nicely for him...

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Thanks, a lot of good stuff i tried the cheek one worked so well

Salut!

My best dancefloor opener, I use it everytime I sarge and it's never overused.

You see a girl, doesn't matter she is dancing or not, grab her hand and lead to the dancefloor. If you can't dance - learn discofox or salsa.

What can happen?
a) She responds well - you dance, introduce, some smokescreen talking while escalating kino.
b) She responds well but her friends are cockblocking - encourage her to introduce you to the group
c) She rejects - have something to follow up, not mentioning rejection. If you don't mention it - it didn't happen. "Sorry, didn't know you prefer girls", "Should I worry about your boyfriend?" etc.
d) She mentions boyfriend - apologize her boyfriend and befriend him;
e) She puts her arms around her friend - "Sorry, didn't know you prefer girls"
f) She flies in panic. A no go.

If she don't flie in panic, you started a conversation.

Salut!
Surielx.

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My friend and I came up with these while chatting about openers, some of these have already been posted but modifed alittle.

These work great on a girl you've seen around a couple times in school but never talked,

"Hey, I swear we keep seeing each other but never met. I am "....", who are you?"

"Hello ... So what exactly is it that you do here? Let me guess... "..( Whatever course you think she might be taking)"..! "

thank you!
one of the best ones of this whole thread, fuckin love it!!

guys let me know if this is any good or not, I love the whole 'cute' vs 'hot' dynamics in clubs,

UNCLEBUCK: 'Hey, you're pretty cute .... (pause and stare with serious intent) .....
Her : ????????blah
UNCLEBUCK: but do you know what clubs all the HOT girls go to? and [insert sly smile]

thank me by naming your children uncle buck.

Here's one I came up with from a real argument and in the right setting comes out as absolute gold.

Basically me and my mate were playing a drinking game (on the street) where you have to take turns naming an animal, not naming the same one twice. Anyway we played it and kept coming up with "animals" that were debatable. Such as he would say fish, or I would say penguin.

So the opener could go like this:
"Hey could I get a quick opinion on something. Me and my mate are playing this drinking game and we can't decide on something. Is a fish an animal??" bla bla bla. You could also go on, "so how about a penguin then?". Don't mention what the game is until she asks, just talk about it and ask the question in a way that makes her curious. Then of course the perfect thing to lead into is getting them to join you for a round, although just be careful not to end up paying for the drink!

Sorcerer: Hi my name is Sorcerer, do you think it's a weird name?
HB: No of course not? (most of time HB will be nice and won't say it's weird, you might have some complimenting it).
S: You really think so? Do you think your name is weird? I know 70% of girls dislike the names they were given.
HB: Really? (watch out for IOIs at this time, they will take the lead sometimes during this point, and even reveal their name).
S: Cool, what's your name?
HB: ???
S: That's not a weird name, in fact it fits you.
HB: Really?
S: No I was just joking. (neg)
HB: *slaps you at the arm*
S: Ouch ouch ouch. I was only kidding. Can't you take a simple joke ???. You're no fun. (neg)

Proceed with some DHL and Kino.

Have fun!

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Camera opener. Works well on a set or mixed set nearby.

If you're out with a group of friends people always have cameras or at least camera phones in bars/clubs these days (just check people's facebook photos...).

Here's one I've used a couple of times. I don't do it much as it only really works if you're in a group, just you and your wing is a bit weird.


Me: Excuse me, can you take our picture?

Sit back down with your friends and smile, let her take the picture. She'll hand the camera back, look at the photo puzzled and smiling

Me: woah, How many have you had? It's early yet! (implying the photo is blurry...if you really want you can mess with the focus beforehand to show her but I don't bother.)


From here either:

Kino - Hand her the camera back to her, go behind her and help position her arms showing her how to do it "properly", behind works because you're using the excuse to see the camera screen

or

neg - Walk past her while shaking your head and smiling at her, re-approach the group an say "Can anyone take a decent picture?". Hand it to someone else, another HB is preferrable. Then something like "Alright david bailey, you have a go".

From here you can just do any routine, pop in "are you sure you should be doing that?" when she goes to take a drink as a back reference, etc.

I feel like these openers get girls thinking why did he ask me this. I feel like if I was in a situation I would think the same thing. someone PM me an answer.

darkslayer, that's exactly what we want women to think. It's so much better than them thinking, "oh, he's one of those guys that wants my number".

It's a pure misdirection and like what some materials mention, it's a way to engage women into getting their opinion (which they love) to get them talking and a great way to get into a intellectual conversation (depending on your opener) where the PUA can express how intelligent (DHV) he is. From there the PUA can enter into a routine, ..., ...

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I think an easy opener is to go up to a set of girls at a bar and say "You guys don't seem to be having too much fun tonite, I think you could use my company to spice things up." followed by a smile.

And then if you see a group girls dancing by themselves you could say "So what's with you guys being all anti-social? are you afraid to dance with anyone else?" I think this could be good because doubting their social skills and challenging them sort of. It might make them feel a little stupid and want to prove you wrong.

What do you guys think about those?

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I like those, and I've done a variation of this. I went up to a girl at a club and said, "Hey, I'm here to save you from embarrassing yourself, so I'm dancing with you out of pity." She ate it up...

THE SMOKER

ask her if she has a smoke or a lighter for you (preferably a lighter, because you look like a poor guy if you ask for smokes), after this, light your smoke and start talking to her about a random subject

it would surprise you how much success you get with this one.

disclaimer: only use this on smoking girls, or it will severely lower your chances if you don't come with some very smooth talking

I tend to have a lot of luck with "have you seen a midjet walking around dressed as an umpa lumpa?"
they will always laugh and ask if you're looking for a friend or something, you can either run with it and start to chat, but i tend to either go with
"no, but i think we can all agree that that would be hilarious"
or
"yeah, i work for cadburys (hersheys if you live in america) and an experiment at the factory went wrong"