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Hi everybody. I don't have any experience at all, and that makes me much harder to understand how could the pickup possibly be done. I have a few questions.
1. What kind of things am I supposed to talk about between opening and closing?(ex. career..)damn that's all i can think of at this second! i just want to know all the possible subjects i can talk about, so i can be a lot more confident and in control.
2. When I called the girl back to meet up, but she said she was busy or something, so what could i have done?
3. Am I supposed to at least set up a date as a closing or say something like hanging out? If so, what can i say?
4. "Kiss Close" is really cool. I have never heard of this before. So can this be done in any places?(ex. classroom, library, bus stop, market..)
5. How can I get a date after meeting a new girl?
6. Can I just get girls who walking on the street?
These are the things that confuses me...
Welcome to this spectacular world my friend.
Okay I'll help you if I can alright.
Lets see here.
1) Emmm, I don't know about career...yeah it would be good to know the person, but, you would bore her out unless you get deeper into it.
Connect with her the way she hasn't connected with anyone before.
IF you can pull this off great you will give her the gift of missing you, and she'll be dying to get back togheter with you as quickly as she can.
You need to talk about whats her passion, her goals, what shes like...Get to know who she is.
And be ready to tell her who you are. But most of all keep it upbeat and positive...don't bring the spirits down.
2) She's busy...oh damn sucks for her cause you had planned a killer night and she was just gonna tag along.
Or wooptidoo, it don't matter, call the next girl..
You see?..don't worry about it.
She missed out on the fun you had that night.
3)Yessir, thats the "bounce""timebridge"
Basically you won't have all the time in one night to get from opening to sex, unless your a great mack, or if shes craving it.
I think your just suppose to number close her and then you think about when you'd want her to come out.
You would just call her a few days in advance and tell her that your going to X this Saturday since its your only day free, would you like to come along or something like that.
While your sarging her tell her that " Is there a way we could continue this conversation??" And hand her your phone..She should know the rest.
4) Kiss close I'm sure can be done anywhere...maybe not so funerals..but that wouldnt be great to start off with.
As long as your comfortable with it go for it.
Theres only one way to tell.
5) Uff, I don't know about this one.
Umm, call her and set up a place were you guys will hang out.
Make it fun and non cliche.
No dinner and movies, have fun where she hasn't.
6)Its tempting isn't it.
But Its been said that its a whole different ball game when your day sarging.
They might be alone so that kinda kills the group neg, and working to isolate the chick.
People say that you have to switch it up to direct gaming when your sarging in the street cause they don't have that much time to spend out there.
Well this is all the info I can really give you but take what you like or what youll need.
If anybody else comes ....Improve my post, I kinda jumbled and I feel confused too.
I know what I said but I'm not sure it came out like that.
Well good luck and come back and tell us how it went.
CHAT
Don't be afraid of rejection. Through rejection you gain knowledge. If she doesn't want to go out with you, who cares about her. She missed out with being with you, not vice versa. Again, YOU ARE THE PRIZE.
