guys i need your help. i started messaging a girl on facebook and i need help for the follow up

me:
I'm chris, not sure if we've met or not but you look really familiar. Ur pretty cute, are you fun and interesting too? I'm kinda picky

her:
Salut Christian, nous nous ne sommes jamais rencontrés:)...je suis sûre de ça
Joyeux Noel ! (she answered in french) it means :hi chris we never met im pretty sure about that ,merry christmas!

me:
cute and polite? something is wrong here you are a serial killer right?
merry christmas to you !


her
yes i`m Nikita ))
Merry Christmas you too



how do i follow up ? all your help is welcome

anyone?

You don't follow up. You came in too soft imo...

How do you know this girl?

i dont know her. she is from facebook

try a more hands on approach next time, like you introduced yourself first, it was kinda like you were hitting on her, rather than messaging her out of your own self amusement. i would move on and keep practising your online game.

say: so you've been a really good girl and santa has brought you lots of presents right?

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could you explain a bit more?? what do you mean a more hand on approach? im new to the online game so i need help..

You opened with an IOI if my research is correct. "My name is...." is an IOI.

You need to open with a random "don't care if you answer" type opener. DQ yourself straight away, then escalate when you get IOI's. NEVER give IOI's first.

Thats what MM sayas anyway.

Id have not opened lke you, but, if I got that response -

"Oh you speak French do you? I went to France (last month/week) and the people were so rude, I ended up hanging with some suprisingly decent French chicks though. Are you guys rude naturally or do you work on it?".

That sort of shit.

good input claude.

always have fun with internet gaming. amuse yourself [no not over redtube] so say summit that makes you laugh... your messaging a hot girl random shit how fun is that?

dont message her like your trying to ask her out... "hey my names tom" is so hitting on her. why would she wanna be hit on by a stranger. instead get her attention and then when shes interested start using the pleasantries/hitting on her.

Example:

subject: It's you!

You keeping popping up on my facebook all the time! you're like the real life dora explora. It's a good job your fucking cute.

Example:

I'm so fucking annoyed at you. every time i have to look after my niece i hear your songs played over and over on your damn tv show. you piss me off but your secrets safe with me...hannah montanna.

summit like that...maybe not swear...im british after all.

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Say you have the Conversation rolling and you go for the getting a number or facebook account to chat.

You give her yours and she hasn't shot you a text or IM.....

Everything was going great until, I gave her the info to find me.

I dont want to message her back online and seem "needy"

Any advice?

means you f**ked up. if you dont get solid numbers its because you messed up early on in the conversation.

formulate ways of always getting the number...i never give out mine unless she "doesn't know hers." then id put it in her phone then prank call mine so i get hers.

easy.

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that's why you gotta ask for theirs.
if they hesitate you still have options but once they have yours there's not a lot you can do if they choose to not to use it.