Well this sucks.

She seems pretty normal in person and we definitely get alone. I mean, I saw her quirks when we wont on the day 1 but jeez this is a whole different level.

GET THE FUCK OUT MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hahahahaha

Oh man thats funny. But on a more serious note. Get the fuck out man. I know you like her and all, but dam man try to live a drama free life. This girl is going to fuck you over one way or another. Unless you are looking for a quick lay, you need to end it relatively fast. Unless you love all this drama shes about to bring into your life, then fire away captain!

Here's an UPDATE!

She came back from vacation and started hitting me up a lot. I know she's a little weird but I figure we can just be friends with benefits and leave it at that. Made plans, then she couldn't come - so I said I'm done with this. She got upset and begged to come over the next day. I said yes.

She came over, we watched a 3 hour movie while talking through it. She jumped on my bed, I followed her. Kino'd for a long ass time, and just went for the makeout. Did that for a few minutes, then under the shirt, down the pants ...etc. Fingered her to O. Then asked her to prove her skills (she said she was great at Oral). She starts and goes halfway, and I ask her to sit in front of me and do it (feels better) and she says no and stops. She also told me not to touch her head. She had to leave at 5 and it was a little weird when she left. I wonder if there is some sort of issues with forced oral or something in her past. I dunno.

Anyway, that's the update. Not sure where to go from here.

Eyyyy good thing you got some action with this chick. Now since she said no and left she now has control over the relationship. When she messages you or contacts you tell her "Hey I'd like to keep talking with you and hanging out, but I just want to make sure that you're not emotional or feeling unwell cuz this dude don't deal with drama or any of that baggage. (Push/Pull) So whenever your normal again we can get together so you can make me feel good, you know what you like to do."(Cocky/funny) Give her the gift of missing you.

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I didn't talk to her at all yesterday.

Sent her a text around 1:30pm today and asked if she wanted to come over tonight. Trying to keep it casual - just FWB. She texted back "busy" .. wtf? So I responded "k". She then said "Sorry". And I said "hit me up when you're not busy".

Not sure about my answer but she threw me for a loop when she responded with just "busy".

Here's the thing guys. Girls like this like to be treated like a slut in the bedroom... But treated like princesses when everyone else is watching.

Ask yourself what does your text message convey...' I'm ready for another booty call tonight, wanna come round?' - This is how she will interpret this.

Ok sure, she might be this type of girl... But seriously, having it verbalised in a text message doesn't give her any piece of mind. It's the quickest route to spending a night alone.

And what's this?

'Hit me up when you're not busy.' Does this sound like something she absolutely can't miss out on. Do you think she's grabbing for her phone to get it on with you?

If you wanna get another lay just make her feel like a special little princess. When she's actually stood there in your bedroom, you know what to do.

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hahah thats a funny one tweeby and I like the "these girls want to be treated like slut..princess around everyone" theory. It's sooo true.

But Daniel you should take Tweeb's advice maybe text her a couple of days later and say "Hey I'm ready for that booty call you owe me"..anyways i suggest you start looking for other women as well.

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Well if I treat her too much like a princess she is going to become clingy. I'm trying not to do that. And she is VERY straight up. She doesn't even do the whole "lol" thing in her texts. She's much more flirty in real life though.

However, I am sick of her always texting me and only being available once in a while. It's annoying. If you're going to blow my phone up all the time you better be available to chill.

I'm going to text her on Tuesday morning and say "Come over tonight and bring a movie." If she says no or is busy, I'm just gonna tell her i'm done with this. Too much work for a FWB.