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Hey. If that bitch gives you some shit about being overweight, don't take it as a negative insult. You have to be fuckin comfortable with who and what you are and dont let any bitch tell you otherwise.

From what I've read, she definitely wants your dick man. I don't understand how you dont see this. From what Ive read you seem to be pretty insecure about yourself. I know its hard, but you have to believe in yourself and your looks and others will start to believe it also. I've recently started to emit the vibe that "I AM THE SHIT, AND I AM NOT GOING TO LET YOU TELL ME OTHERWISE." It is so shocking how people pick up on this and you just get so much more attention.

Back to the topic, you need to pass those shit tests by acting like you don't give a shit about what she says. Like the previous poster said, you replying with " Oh ok we should stop talking then..." THAT IS AN INSTANT FAIL. That shows how insecure you are with yourself and is a big turn off to the girl. You have to brush it off and act like it doesn't affect you at all. " Im not really attracted to your type." With that, you should reply with something like" DAMM I must be fucking amazing then huh? =) "

Maybe thats just my personality, but thats how I deal with those stupid tests. And it ALWAYS WORKS. Goodluck man. Ill keep posted with this thread.
Thanks for the info man.

Question. Now that I've failed the shit test, what do I do? Last night she said she feels like shit for even bringing it up and it didn't come out like she meant it. The last thing she texted was "I hope you'll keep seeing me. Merry Christmas." I haven't texted her back yet and she hasn't either.

So how should I take it from here?
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Text her "I hope so too with a smiley face" then next wait for about a couple of days after she gets back and ask her to go for coffee or tea.

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@HappySlip those shit test replies were good.

To the OP DO NOT text her when she's off for those two days... Not even 'I hope so too with a smiley face.' She's already kicking herself that she has insulted you. Let her stew a little. Even better cos when you organise another meet up she will be in a psycho go-get-him state!

Also you've just failed her shit test by saying you no longer want to speak to her. Therefore her attraction levels will be low. Don't go organising a day 2 when she's not in state. This is the first rule I learned, the HARD way.

And she said "its my turn to drive but I hope you'll keep seeing me. Merry Christmas." She is basically TELLING you, "look I need to figure what I want, but if you give me the space I wanna keep seeing you."

Trying to text her while she is on vacation will just underline your neediness... Now is not the time to choke. Wait till she gets back, even give it another day. Then think of something fun to do and REALLY sell it to her as something so exciting she does not want to miss out on.

The rest, should be history.

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Thanks happy slip and tweeby.
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Oh cuz that txt would have like ended the conversation I suppose because she might not think that you got the text or not. What I ment was txt her something to end the conversation then do not communicate with her until she comes back so she can keep thinking of you, which tweeby got it right. But yeah you should escalate things again when shes at the brink of going psycho for you haha.

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Haahah its funny how into the game people get when you should simply realize this is just a girl who needs the attention and obviously likes the guy. Dont try these high levels of game on her. Txt her when you feel like you should text her and that should be good enough. Dont get to consumed into the game. Its really only meant for the REALLY HARD ONES.
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Here's an update.

She is on vacation is east bum (bleep) and doesn't have cell service. But she wrote on my facebook "Hope you had a good Christmas". I said the same to her and asked if she was back in town yet. She said she stayed because she thought I was mad at her. She said she would be back later this week. Fuck.

She told me to get on Fbook chat (we were just sending messages back and forth) so I did. We talked for a bit, and she was telling me about the small town she was in. So I made up a DHV story:

"i remember i was in a really small town like that on the way to NYC a couple of months ago. We stopped and had dinner and my friend was using the bathroom so I went outside and sat on a bench. All of a sudden this chick comes out of nowhere and sits down and starts venting all these issues about her boyfriend. It was so odd, she didn't even know me. I guess I give off a trustworthy vibe lol"

How's that DHV? She said "You do have a trustworthy vibe. I have a lot of trust issues. And other issues". I asked her if she wanted to talk about it and she said "im pretty sure you already want to stop talking to me as it is should i just let all my crazy out on once". I said "well im here if u wanna talk about it" and she said "it normally takes me a while to start talking i got to feel really comfortable"

So that's where we are.
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dude you should've ignored her bro and let her enjoy her vacation. You shouldn't have asked if she was back yet, let her chase you.

Wrong move on asking her if she wants to tell you her issues, your pursuing her your not a fucking therapist, get your shit together man.

Should've neg her on her crazyness.

Wrong move on letting know that she has a girlfriend(you) to talk her feelings about.

Like I said let her chase you, ignore her, she'll message you to hang out, I suggest you ignore her, and after maybe 2 or 3 messages tell her something like "Damn I haven't check my phone/facebook for a minute and I get all these messages, somebody wants me....hard" or something.

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dude you should've ignored her bro and let her enjoy her vacation. You shouldn't have asked if she was back yet, let her chase you.

Wrong move on asking her if she wants to tell you her issues, your pursuing her your not a fucking therapist, get your shit together man.

Should've neg her on her crazyness.

Wrong move on letting know that she has a girlfriend(you) to talk her feelings about.

Like I said let her chase you, ignore her, she'll message you to hang out, I suggest you ignore her, and after maybe 2 or 3 messages tell her something like "Damn I haven't check my phone/facebook for a minute and I get all these messages, somebody wants me....hard" or something.
I didn't go after her! She asked me! So i just answered. But look at what she just told me. It's weird!

"most of the time i hate myself, i cant deal with stress, i cut, i have sex with pretty much anyone who wants me"

Holy cow.

She also said she would be more attracted to me if I was skinner because "heck, i'd be more attracted to myself If I was skinner" (what she said). She seems to have a lot of self esteem issues and I'm not sure what to do. She said she has trust issues because guys only want her for sex and then want to leave her.

I don't know how much to push. I don't know if regular game will work on a girl with this much self esteem issues. She may not come after me if I leave her alone. She's like a lost puppy.
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dear daquix! soon this whole issue will evolve around oneitis very soon. reason:

"most of the time i hate myself, i cant deal with stress, i cut, i have sex with pretty much anyone who wants me"

this will end up in a mess. dont date the crazy. i know you want to be her saviour, but you wont be.

with other words: do yourself a favour, skip this one and look elsewhere.
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dude you should've ignored her bro and let her enjoy her vacation. You shouldn't have asked if she was back yet, let her chase you.

Wrong move on asking her if she wants to tell you her issues, your pursuing her your not a fucking therapist, get your shit together man.

Should've neg her on her crazyness.

Wrong move on letting know that she has a girlfriend(you) to talk her feelings about.

Like I said let her chase you, ignore her, she'll message you to hang out, I suggest you ignore her, and after maybe 2 or 3 messages tell her something like "Damn I haven't check my phone/facebook for a minute and I get all these messages, somebody wants me....hard" or something.
I didn't go after her! She asked me! So i just answered. But look at what she just told me. It's weird!

"most of the time i hate myself, i cant deal with stress, i cut, i have sex with pretty much anyone who wants me"

Holy cow.

She also said she would be more attracted to me if I was skinner because "heck, i'd be more attracted to myself If I was skinner" (what she said). She seems to have a lot of self esteem issues and I'm not sure what to do. She said she has trust issues because guys only want her for sex and then want to leave her.

I don't know how much to push. I don't know if regular game will work on a girl with this much self esteem issues. She may not come after me if I leave her alone. She's like a lost puppy.

Ohh dude bad signs your going to LJBF mode...better find a way to get out while you still have a chance...

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dear daquix! soon this whole issue will evolve around oneitis very soon. reason:

"most of the time i hate myself, i cant deal with stress, i cut, i have sex with pretty much anyone who wants me"

this will end up in a mess. dont date the crazy. i know you want to be her saviour, but you wont be.

with other words: do yourself a favour, skip this one and look elsewhere.
Cindy, if anything that line kinda pushed me away from her.
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Ohh dude bad signs your going to LJBF mode...better find a way to get out while you still have a chance...
I was stunned that she told me all that crap. Crazyness.
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Just tell her that she should get some help from family, friends or professional. That you're not comfortable and not designated to mess with human psychological behavior. Tell her to go look for "who she really is and what she's looking for" and "when you find it, maybe you guys can chill again"(This is great because this is what women tell guys who she doubts to be with) reverse the role. Best advice is just to let her mind clear because now you remind her for all her crazyness.

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The trouble with *this* type of girl is that they are so used to being emotionally abused into spreading their legs... this is the only type of behaviour they respond to.

She'll tell you she wants a guy who doesn't just want her for sex and then leaves her. Typically, the chump thinks... Well I want to save this girl so he tells her he won't ever do that... asks her if she wants to discuss her problems.

This is always a bad move because she is expecting the chump to say that to get into her pants and will be thoroughly put off.

To lay these type of girls it's pretty simple... Treat them EXACTLY how they say they don't want to be treated. Now, it is possible to change the way they think of relationships if you demonstrate to her you are the rock.

But she's definitely a 'crazy.' These girls always live for the drama because of how they've been treated -> She's more likely to cheat on you and difficult to tame.

Hmm, this is a pickle.

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