just curious.

there's this girl in a couple of my classes who is to a lot of guys, a butter face. she has a very cute body, in the most respectful way possible, but has a less than perfect faceto them. guys don't really hit on her or anything, but I actually think she's cute. she's definitely not as bad as dudes say. I've heard she can be flirty and is interested in getting a boyfriend. there's only one class I could actually talk to her in cuz she sits a couple seats away. she gets involved in my conversations every once in a while and seems to laugh at my jokes and stuff. I just wasn't sure how to escalate to getting a number and getting a date. I hate doing the whole, "I like this girl, but don't tell anyone *wink wink*" game. I just want to legitimately date this girl withot middle school connections. I can see how it would be easier if it wasn't school and we were jus on a street, but since it's in school and it's hard sometimes to initiate conversations in certain circumstances, I need some tips! thanks.


ps: I've heard from my friend who I would say is less attractive than me physically and personality wise, that she took her top off for him and always talked about sex when they talked. I know she's not slutty cuz she seems pretty modest during school, I think she just liked him. he said he can give me her number or tell her I think she's hot, cuz he said she might go for me. b

but what should I do?

Its definately better to do it yourself. Dont have your friend give you her number. The best and at the same time the simplest way about going on about this is chatting and making jokes with her some more and then engaging her sometime (out of class) to say something along the lines of: Hey I think you're fun and we should hang out sometime, can I have your number?

This girl sounds like she is ready to mingle! Dont miss out on that

Remember, lifes an adventure and theres nothing quite as exhilarating as the feeling you get when youre making your move on a girl.

Tell me how it went.=)

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lol so apparently my friend gave her my number and she started texting me.

we are talking about random stuff, but I'm building comfort. we aren't really awkward anymore, talking sarcastically. but how can I escalate? I hear she's sorta promiscuous. I wanna keep things moving! help!!

Promiscuous? All the more reason to hook up ASAP. Fuck the texting game. She's into you if she texted you and you two had a nice conversation....follow up with meeting somewhere. With a girl like this, you only text her when your looking to hook up, dont have long conversations that way. She took her top off for some guy? Imagine what she's gonna do for you. You just gotta get some face time in with her.

Thats the best way to get things moving. A girl that likes you jumps at the chance to meet you, and given her record, she may be fuckable early on if you play it right. Dont over think what doesn't need to be thought about. Keep it flirty and fun and it'll just happen. Get out there asap and bone her! Dont over think "comfort" and rapport.

alright good stuff man, thanks!

she texted me cuz my friend told her to. but she did, she didn't have to I guess.


and dude, since she's not the prettiest chick, would it be alright to kinda compliment her face. cuz she doesn't get comments like that often I assume. i've done the same thing with two girls in the past and they were wanting to make out within days. it seemed to build immediate attraction.

hey and how can I get this chick to want to fuck me throught texting?? I know it's possible, kinda used to do it. but ijust started textig again recently and Ive lost my touch. please give me some tips to make this chick wanna fuck me. we are 16 btw.

You aren't ready to fuck anyone untill you are man enough to talk to someone and interact with them face to face. Untill you can look a girl in the eye and talk to her person to person and interact on a human level keep your phone in one hand and a bottle of baby oil in the other so you can spank while thinking about your little txt fantasys.

haha I know it's a pussy move.

and today at about 9 my friend texts me: why haven't you texted blah today?
and I said I though I bored her. and he said: I wouldn't say that, she just texted me saying you hadn't talked to her today.

so we've been texting for like 3 hours, I know it's a bad idea, but things are getting good. I got her pretty comfortable and the convo doesn't feel forced. and the topic came up of her in bed somehow. then she says that she was naked. not really in a sexual way, but she still told me she was naked! I'm getting flirtier too

any input?

You HAVE to capitalize on shit like that...why would a girl tell you something like that unless she wanted you to know about it and act on it? I doubt she tells everyone she texts when she's walking around naked. Only people she wants to know, in this case, YOU.

I know things are heating up a bit with you and her texting wise but I promise you it's only going to get you so far. If you dont show some initiative soon to meet up and smash your privates together, then she's gonna get bored. Because that's what she wants too! She'll get tired of the texting and start gradually fading away. Act on this. Invite her over, go over her place, dear god I dont care if you drag her off behind a dumpster but do something. Give ME her number! She needs to get fucked soon, it's either you or someone else.

Ok, mini rant here:

The PUA community really should stop using any rating system at all, it's redundant, perfect example, my GF (Used that term outta ease, long story behind it lol) to me is a HB9, but to my friend is a 7 at best, 5 at worse, I don't agree with his views about her at all. So thats outta the way, if you like her, go for her, simple as that, don't put her in a little checkbox rating.

Anyway, to your problem, just ask her to meet up at such and such and whenever, say at a mall or something.

Example, text "Y'know, I'm going to get some new clothes tomorrow, u coming? Meet you at McDonalds, at 2pm."


Easy as that, then you go into the "Date" part.

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The rating system is used to evaluate women on a social not attraction level. The girl having her 21st birthday party whose dad is a millionaire and spoiled this shit out of her is going to be the 10 that's a real challenge for pickup.
It's a useful way for PUAs to rate their "game".

Oh and to ttimc,
A good way to get from the flirty dirty talk/text/whatever to the part where you put your penis somewhere in her body is the "what would you do if I.."

What would you do if I walked in on your naked right now?
What would you do if I snuck out of my house and came over?

Be playful and look to her for cues. If she expresses interests in whatever it is you say you better make the fascination a reality or you'll lose your credibility with her.

Hope this helps

sounds like she wants you to take action dude. Just do it =]