| When kissing, touch her face with your hand, then brush her hair off one side of her neck and kiss her neck up to her ear (be careful of the ear - nuzzle it gently and see her reaction. Some women LOVE it, others don't like it at all. If she does, you can bite it gently as you work you way up kissing her neck).
Make sure to have one hand holding her by the small of the back.
You can lift her shirt up and keep it around her wrists, and then hold the shirt and her wrists together with one hand whilst you kiss her. She'll like the light restraint because you're exercising dominance over her in a pleasurable way that she could actually get out of if she didn't like it. You can do this whilst standing up and push her into the wall whilst keeping a hand behind her so she doesn't hit her head, then kissing her more deeply.
Kissing around the sensitive areas is great to build up tension. So, down the neck and around the edges of the breasts, and then the nipples, softly at first. You can use a suck and tongue flick, but don't twist them with your fingers. They are not volume knobs. The only thing that'll do is turn her sex drive DOWN. Similarly, down the legs and around the inner thighs first, and then around the outer lips of her pussy and then a flat tongue from bottom to top, slowly, before applying indirect clitoral stimulation.
The time from being in the bedroom and kissing to giving her oral should be at least 15 minutes. Taking her clothes off slowly, then taking yours off, then circling around the sensitive areas, etc. builds up expectation and excitement, which will make it all the more awesome when you finally do touch her. Going straight for her clit will turn her off because she's not warmed up yet and she'll be like "oh, classic man, rushing everything, what a tool." You don't want that.
Dirty talk is a whole separate issue, and is really important because it accomplishes a number of things, most importantly, building anticipation, making you the dominant bedroom leader, and heightening the sexual experience as it's happening.
Before you're in the bedroom, you can tell her that she really turns you on, that you can't keep your hands off of her, that you can't wait to kiss her all over her body, that you're hard right now just thinking about being inside her.
You can tell her to say how badly she wants to be fucked by you. That it's your pussy, that you can do whatever you want with it. That she's naughty and she needs to be spanked by you.
The basic idea is to start small, build it up, get more dirty, and ask leading, rhetorical questions you keep going further with, for example
You like that
Yeah you like it when I do that don't you
Tell me how much you like it
Tell me how much you want me to do it to you
etc.
Don't be afraid to be dominant and aggressive. Women like to be manhandled into positions, fucked hard, and called your dirty little slut / whore / bitch IN THE BEDROOM.
Finally, a little NLP technique called pacing and leading can help heighten the sensations she's already feeling. When she's lying next to you (you could even blindfold her to increase the effects even more) you can say something like "as you're lying here naked next to me already so hot for me, as I touch you, you feel more and more aroused every time my hand touches your skin"
Basically you tell her
(i) what's already happening [which is definitely true, so she trusts what comes next more]
(ii) what you're going to do next [which you then do, continuing to build that trust]
(iii) HOW TO FEEL about what you're going to do / doing [this is the great part - you TELL her to feel more aroused, and hey presto, she GETS more aroused, because the female orgasm is 100% MENTAL] _________________ SEX Technique Material http://bit.ly/iFdky0
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