All of you guys have it completely wrong. Each and every one of you.

99% of the act of getting a drink for a girl is not the purchasing aspect, but the delivery aspect.

The key to this situation is anticipation! Anticipate the needs and wants of a woman and your life will be soo much easier. Sounds hard, right? wrong

Whenever I dance with a woman at a club or have just opened them anywhere where alcohol is involved, you should be the first mover in all situations. remember, women love to be lead in most situations.

This conversation should never come up:

Hb: "Hey you should buy me a drink"
You: "Ummm ok. What would you like?"
HB: "I'll take a _______________"
You: "ok"

WRONG

Anticipation Crash Course

the first thing you need to do is always keep your cool--we are just friends right? nothing more nothing less. friends dont pay for everything. remember?

Heres a sample convo:

**Dancing, dancing, song over, BAM!**
Esquire: "I'm want a drink...you coming?" (Very slight neg, good PUA's will understand +DHV)
HB: "Sure..."
**No matter the response, kino en force with a hand grab, lead to bar...if at bar, kino anyway**
Esquire: (At bar) "I'll take a _________. She's buying .

Key here is to not ask what she wants. If she says "what do you mean I'm buying?"
Esquire: "Well I said I wanted a drink and you came with me."

No choice but to buy you a drink or she'll feel like shit.

If she says nothing, then you have a golden, grand, superb opportunity for a fantastic neg such as:

Esquire: "i thought only needy girls bought drinks for guys?"
HB: "I'm not needy!"
Esquire: "Well you bought me a drink...I'll let it slide this time. Lets go dance."

AND a great opportunity for sensual kino i.e. lower back, lead to the dancefloor hand in hand.



"Buy Me a Drink" problem solved. Anticipation is everything. First mover is everything.

Questions? Ask

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Esquire

That doesn't answer how to respond when a girls asks YOU to buy her a drink. There are tons of posts on that already, so I'm not going to go into it. This is a good way to neg and DHV, but you can't use this if she asks you to buy her a drink without modifying it a lot.

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the key isnt to let it get to that point..be a few drinks behind the girl and never lose your thoughts and intelligence.

if a girl asks you to buy her a drink ignore her and then say:

You: "i want a drink...you coming?"

done and done--think on your feet buddy

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Esquire

she can always not buy your drink and thats it

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A lifestyle is a terrible thing to waste.
What I say when I see her is what I'll say.

Esquire, either way you go with your technique she's likely to feel like shit. If she doesn't buy she'll feel like shit. If she does buy she'll feel like shit because she's being forced into something. Unless the girl is just seeing stars and shit, thinking you are a god or something.

Yeah, your technique will obviously work for some girls, but I doubt it would work for many girls.

Girls want to be LEAD, not FORCED.

Is this something u tried an tested yourself and had success or is it just a theory??

Even if u had I honestly don't see much success with trying to get the girl to buy u a drink. This isn't a very realistic routine

So after the girl says "NO I'm not buying u shit" do u plan on arguing with her about it?

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So u think you can handle this?

Couldn't have said it better.


But each and everyone of us has it wrong. LOL

What a tool!

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Perception is Reality

yes a tool. ive never had a problem using this. i guess some of you are afraid of trying new things that arent canned.

Tried and true is always the best way--especially when it is published.

I've used this many a times and never had a problem.

I dont know why someone would think that this is completely forced because it isnt..i think of it more like cornering, something that all of you preach.

your high horse does nothing but rock back and forth. get on your feet and move out of a single dimension of knowledge.

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Esquire

Not completely forced . . . We have a high horse, eh? Well, you need to get down off yours of assholeness.

this solution isn't FORCED by any means. either she's gonna be you a drink or she isn't. either way you *still have sum nice negs to keep things moving ur way. ... i'll test it this weekend and keep yall posted.

We have a high horse, eh? Well, you need to get down off yours of assholeness.[/quote]

well maybe my choice of words in writing this were not the best. "No Choice" was not particularly accurate because this situation still allows the HB to make a choice, yet the choice tends to favor the guy either way.

She has every opportunity to say no and refuse which in turn gives you another opportunity to neg.

My post was not meant to give off an air of assholeness; but rather to give a general gist of how this works in the most general terms.

If this offended you then, well, my apologies. But dont knock me or label me considering you have no idea who I am.

I am more than open to suggestions.

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Esquire

Don't knock us.

ok havn't tried it yet but what about this:

hb: i want a drink
you: no thanx

or:

hb: i want a drink
you: great i'll have beer, wait and signal anticipation

lol i actually like it. I think you guys who are ripping on him are getting it wrong. I dont think he's point is to force the girl to buy him a drink, but to "anticipate" that she will and steal her frame. He knows the girl might ask for a drink after a dance, so he takes control and asks her first. If done in a natural/right way, the girl should be having fun and i think it would work pretty well. Obviously we cant anticipate everything, but the point is we are men, we should be the ones leading the sarge.
Atleast thats what i got from reading his post. Either way i thought it was interesting.

It's funny that you mention our frame. If your frame is right, I submit that the girl won't even ask you to buy her a drink to begin with.

For some reason, I don't even have that question asked of me. I've run game on girls ranging from 5's on up and haven't had ONE ask ME to buy them a drink. In fact, when one wants a drink, they say "I'm going to the bar to get me a drink. Will you be here when I get back?" At which I say, "I'll be around somewhere. You'll have to find me." And, guess what? They buy their own drink and then they look for me. And no, I don't drink at the club, so I don't even tell them to get me one.

So, again, who's got it wrong?