Wasup guy's karas here.I dont mean to boust but,I'm a really good natural dancer.Therefore dancefloor game is my strong point but,am I to much of a good dancer?

Last night I was out parting with my wing at a spot called mad river in manayunk,(MANAYUNK!!!).I'm danceing with a HB8 brunette you know,grinding,kino and building sexual tension and it's going good when she say's something in my ear.I can't hear her so I do a complince test and lead her to the stairs,still can't hear her so I pull another complince test and bring her to a dark corner.She situat's herself up against the corner perfect position.

So I asked what did she say?She I said,are you gay?WOW

I didn't get upset I just smiled looked her in the eyes and said what do you think and slowly went in for the kiss.REJECTED!!!

Not long after that she said,nice to meet you and flew away.

Here's two things I think I do that might get that response.I back it up on chicks just for laughs.Or is it that i spin.A girl once told me I was the first guy that she danced with that spined.

I dont know maybe I need to just slow it down.

Any advice would be most appricated.

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You leaned in for a kiss? Man you should never be that easy. Second, it was bad the way you reacted to that. I would have said, "No, but that's what every girl says that can't have me." While distancing myself from HER and even turning your back on her. A real man walks away when he feels his principles have been violated. A girl telling me that would literally violate my principles and will not deserve my full company.

Always be the one to walk away first and always be the one to say "I love you" last.

If you're a good dancer, you should be doing where you're good at.

Look, if you're in the club, most of the people are just standing there, pretending to have "fun".
I dance a lot too at bars, and sometimes people come to me, laughing with me, say that I should stop acting gay.
I'm telling, the people who come to me and say that are those big guys who pretend they're alfas but who actualy stand there doing nothing, ordering more beers and watching at girls who are possibly not interested in him. Frustrated and bored people.

A few weeks ago, I was also blown out because I was such a good dancer. Read my story:
I was two friends and a girlfriend of one of the 2 friends. The music was on, they were playing house music loudly (and I love good house music!), and I can't control myself when the music is on. I start dancing sponteneously. I try some new moves and shit, I have fun.
Than this blond girl, slightly taller than me, approaches me, and she says: "Don't take this as an insult! I'm not saying this sarcasticly, I realy mean it, but I realy think you're a great dancer!"
I look at her seductivly for a few seconds, then I say playfully to her "well than I'll teach you how to dance!"
So I start dancing and grinding with her. A bit later, a guy interupts and starts talking to her. I ask him who he is. Apparently, he is her boyfriend.

The girl you where talking about, maybe wasn't used to a guy dancing like that and so confidently while having fun. She tought of it as attractive, so she started dancing and grinding with you. Then she asks you if you are gay as a test. She wouldn't ask you if she wasn't attracted to you in some way.

My advice: don't overanalyse it. You led her away and she followed you, that's a good sign. Uninterested girls wouldn't do that. You were confident and aggressive by trying to kiss her. These are attractive qualities, you better not lose them. So don't think about taking it slower cause there are a lot of girls who likes it quick!

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